I have a favor to ask, especially those of you who create historical fiction and fantasies that take place in worlds that are based on pre-modern time periods…
Stop making your girls slim, skinny, waifish, lanky, lean, scrawny, angular, gangly, thin, and then have them complain about it.
I appreciate the fact you are acknowledging that in older times, being thin was not desired to the point it is now. That in those times, women with curves, ample chests, and round bottoms were more highly sought after and being thin meant you were malnutritioned and thus, not as desirable.
I get that you want the girls to be relatable, and who hasn’t lamented over their body not being the current ideal of beauty.
But for girls like me, who have lots of curves, ample chests, and round bottoms, when your female protagonist is thin and she complains about it, it’s like a slap in the face for me.
Because it feels like the toxic message of being skin and bones thin has permeated even the worlds where I go to escape negative body image themes. That even there, with the female protagonist I’m supposed to relate to and go on this journey with, has something I’ve been brainwashed into desiring but can never attain, and she has the nerve to whine about it - it drives me insane.
So do me a favor and make a female protagonist who is full of curves and have her be proud of it. Have someone - herself or other characters in the story - note her ample assets and remark how attractive she is. Put her flaws and insecurities in some other part of herself. Make her curvy figure something she is confident about.
In fact, make it a point to create girls with all sorts of body types.
Make them with small chests and wide hips. Make their bosom ample and the rest of the figure straight. Make them tall and built like bricks. Make them petite with very round bottoms.
Make them a unique individual.
If we are ever going to make any strides in teaching girls to love the bodies they were born with, then we need to start with worlds they visit to escape reality. Because if the majority of fictional girls are portrayed as having one body type, then what’s the point of fantasy?
The blue line represents law enforcement standing between the people and anarchy, criminals, and violence.
Those who utilize this flag or symbol and derivatives of do so because they are expressing solidarity with law enforcement other first responders, respect, gratitude, and simply support to the men and women who come from all varieties of creeds, races, and beliefs. It is also not uncommon to use it to express mourning over the death or murder of someone in law enforcement.
Before the flag, the symbol was simply this:
And it would later expand to include other aspects of law enforcement and first responders. Red for Firefighters, Silver for Corrections Officers, Gold for Dispatchers/Communications Officers, White for EMS, and Orange for Search and Rescue.
There are versions which include many “Thin Lines” to show respect for multiple agencies. I for one have this one on the back of my car.
Before all this PC nonsense, people used these symbols as a means of support, respect, and encouragement. “We see you, we appreciate you, we are thankful to you.” It never had anything to do with race, hate, power, control, or anything negative.
These symbols have existed long before the mobs called them racist or symbols of ‘white power’ and no matter how you attempt to make them represent something evil, it will not work or change what it stands for:
If you ever work as a first responder or in that community, be it law enforcement, EMS, firefighting, SAR, dispatch..you see hell, sometimes daily. You see your own hell, the hell of others. You see blood, death, torture, cruelty and evil. Lives are risked. Lives are lost - sometimes it could be your own, or someone you were tasked with protecting. Someone you worked side by side with. It’s a calling, and it’s both heaven and hell for those involved. All of us are a family, and this is how we reach out to each other to tell each other something simple:
If you choose to see that as racist, demeaning, hateful, or anything else negative, especially after being explained otherwise, then there is no helping you - unless it’s someone from our community.
Regardless of what you think of us, how you hate or love us, we will always come to help you even if it means getting hurt to do so, or even killed.
That’s our family, and this is our symbol. It will never mean hatred.
For those who still think otherwise and believe yourself good and honest people, I have a challenge for you. The next time you see someone, be they IRL or online and they’re sporting the thin blue line, ask them calmly to tell you what it means to them. Why it’s important to them. What they think of it.
I think you’ll live happier knowing that something you believed was hateful is actually out to do good.
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I’m can’t believe this! Why would they want to drop such a good show? And just when we’re were getting such great cameos and mysteries!!!!
Just a random list of things that annoy me to no end when it comes to cashiering at a grocery store.
1. When customers get mad at the cashier for an item being priced ‘incorrectly’.
Really, people. It’s not our fault. We’re not the ones setting the prices, and not even the people stocking the items are. That is something that is set by the company. Plus all the cashier is doing is scanning the item; 9/10 times, even we don’t know what the price is going to be. So please don’t go around getting angry with us when something doesn’t come up right (or what you think is supposed to be right), because most of the time, there’s really nothing we can do about it, and we don’t deserve your bad attitude making our day harder.
2. When people get into a lane that doesn’t have its light on (indicating that they are NOT open).
Why don’t people pay attention? Did it ever occur to the customer to look up and make sure that the lane they are getting into is still open? Just because we’re helping someone at the moment, doesn’t mean that we are still open and customers are welcome to just start setting a large order of stuff onto the conveyor belt. Because most of the time, we’re rather desperate at that point to have a break, get something to eat, or just go home (having already been waiting to leave for quite some time since said break/clocking out time was due).
3. When someone puts far more than the amounted items at an Express Lane.
Once again, PAY ATTENTION! The whole point of an Express Lane is so people can get in and out of the store as quickly as possible. If the number of items is only a few over, that’s okay. But having someone come over and say, drop over $500 dollars worth of stuff onto the belt kind of ruins the flow, and thus no longer makes it an Express Lane for the people behind them. So please, have some consideration for someone other than yourself. Especially when said self absorbed attitude causes the people behind you to glare at us cashiers like we’re the ones that let you be so inconsiderate (even though our bosses tell us to check them out anyway).
4. When people go around pushing all the buttons on the Self-Checkouts and think the machine is breaking because they’ve confused it.
Self-Checkout is my favorite area, to be quite honest. I love just being able to stand to the side and help people figure out how to use the machines when needed. But when the customers go around not paying attention to how things need to go for the experience to run smoothly....it gets pretty bothersome. The machines are designed for items to be scanned and then placed on the bagging area ONE AT AT TIME. When you try to scan something else before putting the previous item down, it messes things up; ESPECIALLY when you press the ‘Don’t Want to Bag’ button and then place said item that you ‘didn’t want to bag’ down in the bagging area, thus causing the machine to get suspicious of the extra weight and ask you to remove the item that you ‘haven’t scanned yet’. One at at time, people, ONE AT A TIME.
5. When customers bring a whole cart full of stuff to the Self-checkouts.
Kind of similar to the whole ‘Express Lane’ thing. To me, self-checkouts are there to make the shopping experience quicker. It takes more than twice as long for someone to bag their own stuff than it would have taken a cashier to bag their stuff while the customer was putting things on the conveyor belt, when it comes to large orders. Plus, when you bring a cart to the self-checkout area, it severely clogs up the space, for EVERYONE. Trying to get around a cart to just get to the next available machine can be a challenge, unless you resort to being rude, which is not something anyone should do.
6. When people hover way too close to another customer while waiting for their turn.
Personal space. Look it up. Whether it’s at a regular lane or at the self-checkouts, give people some room to breath. It will be your turn eventually. Do your fellow human being a favor and just wait a polite distance away. Hovering over them isn’t going to make them leave any faster, and it’s just plain rude to silently imply that they need to hurry up because clearly it’s your turn and they need to get moving.
7. When someone doesn’t move after getting their receipt.
And now for the other side; let’s not loiter, people. Once you get your stuff, it would be quite nice if you at least stepped away if you feel the need to check your receipt. While it doesn’t hurt to check and make sure you weren’t charged twice or anything, it would help if you didn’t stay in a place someone else needs to be in order to complete their purchase. Especially at the self-checkouts! If you don’t want to have your space rudely invaded, than be polite and step out of the way.
So anyway, that’s my rant. Just needed to get it out of my system :)
this is going around twitter rn but im also super curious: please tell me your top four comfort movies that you’re always down to watch bc my friend thinks mine are ridiculous and now we’ve realised everyone’s version of “comfort” is hilariously different
After reading all the available books by Ali Hazelwood, I have come to the conclusion that she has types. (Yes, plural).
Women: must be short, small chested (and complain about their small chests. Not to mention complain about their bones sticking out. And how men ogle them).
Men: must be super tall, built like comic book heroes, and have huge…equipment.
Normally, I wouldn’t give a hoot about her personal preferences. But when one is spouting messages of diversity and inclusivity, and has had their first work be a major hit (that I myself loved, btw), then I’m just saying it would be nice to see said diversity when it comes to the body types of her main characters.
I’ve already ranted about romance heroines making me want to slap them because they have the gall to whine about their small breasts, especially modern day girls who shouldn’t complain since the fashion and beauty industries center around thin women so really, they have no right-
But my point is that if Ali Hazelwood can get away with inserting her personal preferences into ALL OF HER BOOKS (seriously, there doesn’t seem to be any differences between all of the characters - males and females - besides hair color, eye color, and skin color) then I think that gives me the right to do the same and no one should be allowed to judge me for it.
Thus, all my main characters will be:
Women: all will be 5’5, plus size, and thank the gods they were born with ample bosoms (and also how they have those womanly tummies we all have no matter what our sizes). And have butts and hips that sashay from side to side without even having to try. Because it drives their men wild.
Men: all will be no taller than 5’9, will NOT have 'full' lips, have the bodies of Japanese figure skaters (especially the flat butts), and have equipment so small their pants never look awkward (because really, men need to know there are women out there that don’t find the male wish fulfillment body type attractive. I certainly don’t).
No, @noone-rey. Because I am comparing your silly little salt/pepper, droopy eyed boy to this:
And THIS, is just way sexier ;)
I feel like Oscar needs appreciation for the salt and pepper in his hair because just dAMN
EVEN IN BLACK AND WHITE YOU CAN TELL IT’S THERE
*BONUS* He’s wearing a tURTLE NECK
WHY ARE YOU SO DAMN PERFECT YOU HIPSTER PIECE OF SHIT
WHO I GOTTA FIGHT BECAUSE IT IS JUST UNFAIR
HE HAS SWEATER PAWS IM OUT GOODBYE WORLD
JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL (it’s barely there I know but he still fine and smug as hell)
HE JUST GETS HOTTER WITH AGE
@ -People Mag IF OSCAR ISAAC ISN’T 2018 SEXIEST MAN ALIVE YALL BE HEARING FROM MY LAYWERS
He’s just soon cute it makes me cry with joy aND DON’T EVEN GET ME STARTED ON HIS SWEATER CMON SON
HE KNOWS EXACTly WHAT HES DOIN HE AIN’T SLICK
I just love this man soon much. Thank you Oscar Isaac for existing and thank you God for this beautiful gift to the world. (Yes I know this isn’t with salt and pepper hair get over it)
My all time favorite quotes of Hardison and Elliot showing support for Parker (S02E13 - the Future Job)
Tara: “He is good.”
Hardison: “He should be shot.”
Parker: “…cut off his arms. And his head. Yeah, I wanna kill him. Can we make that happen?”
Elliot: “Yeah, I can. I mean, I could…” (heavily implies murder)
Mirabel Madrigal - Encanto (2021)
Parker - Leverage (2008)
Webbigail "Webby" Vanderquack - Ducktales (2017)
Kaywinnet Lee "Kaylee" Frye - Firefly (2002)
Dr. Temperance "Bones" Brennan, Ph.D. - Bones (2005)
Peridot - Steven Universe (2013)
Lilo - Lilo and Stitch (2002)
Entrapta - She-Ra and the Princesses of Power (2018)
Rosa Díaz - Brooklyn Nine-Nine (2013)
Bella Brown - This Beautiful Fantastic (2016)
Princess Luna - My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic (2010)
Lunella Lafayette aka Moon Girl - Moon Girl and Devil Dinosaur (2023)
Yor Forger - Spy x Family (2019)
Maomao - The Apothecary Diaries (2011)
Marcy Wu - Amphibia (2019)
Elle Woods - Legally Blonde (2001)
Just random stuff that pops into my head or tends to circulate through my brain.
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