hey, dear. i would like to enjoy your free reading.
as a child, i considered myself spontaneous and outgoing. however, after certain events, i became the opposite, much more shy (sorry, english is not my first language).
what triggered this change and what do i still need to work on?
my initials are 'efa', i'm 19 years old, aries rising in the house one.
What triggered this change in EFA and what do they still need to work on?
When I did your spread, it caught my attention that everything started with a major arcana (judgment in reversed), which in my opinion is so blocked that it did not catch my attention, i don’t know how to explain it but the card was so… cloudy? Then when I was drawing the last card, another major arcana came out (the emperor); where he was sitting in control and relaxed. The energy of him was so strong that I could not focus on the other cards lmao.
The root of your problem is that you have a huge block on your own introspection. It really clouded my judgment, I can't imagine how hard it must be for you. But as I was saying, you are being so hard on yourself. Like an excessive anguish for the sake of not relying on others again. Maybe in that experience that marked you you were judged excessively to the point that you internalized it too. You were judged by emotionally unstable people, I can feel the heaviness of them from here. I think they drove you to hold back and put out that fire and spontaneity you had, maybe to fit in? No man, I better stop because I'm getting angry at them channeling this (ugh, I'm so sorry that happened to you). What's blocking your return to your spontaneous and outgoing self is your struggle to be clear about cultivating your emotions. To be a more compassionate and big-hearted person. You may overanalyze social situations from a place of emotional sensitivity (which is understandable), but in doing so you extinguish your flame. The negative criticisms and the attempt to turn off your flame was in vain, you have the queen of cups come out and she talks about learning to cultivate what you already have. It is interesting how after all this done to you, you still got the queen of all the suit of cups. This gives me to understand that you don't need to make a radical change lol, you just need to re-cultivate daily routines in order to reconnect with this side of you that went dormant. You must let it flow naturally again. An effective way to make it flow naturally again is to take control of what you allow and what you don't allow. You must develop a solid foundation of self-confidence. Because once you do is when you can be your spontaneous and outgoing self. Avoiding and not being direct is not setting boundaries, EFA. The last letter made me dizzy! lmao your boundaries are confusing. Or maybe this situation that happened to you was deeper than I can imagine. But since it's a free game let's not get off track. Anyway, as I was saying: you should practice saying no, you should trust your intuition more about which people give you a bad feeling and which others do not. In particular, let go of that excessive judgment that you carry in you for not being the same person you were before. Others made you pay for it, don't do it yourself. You are free of it when you decide not to do it to yourself. Don't please anyone. Become like the emperor, sitting in your chair, in control, direct and unafraid to look straight ahead with your head held high. I recommend the sandwich technique, oh and this video to create boundaries is very good. Start at your own pace and remember that you are not selfish in setting boundaries, it is simply self-care.
Hey theeere, name’s C. I’m venus dominant, entp (8w7), so don’t be surprised to see more inclination towards romance tarot readings. English is no my first language! So bare w/ me. I love fashion, tarot and movies. I also enjoy learning about mbti ( tho i’m no expert ). My reading style is straightforward and direct without overly spiritual language. I reserve the right to decline any reading that conflicts with my personal ethics, values or energy.
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welcome everyone ! for this pac we will explore your future spouse se*xua*l style with you. so buckle up! I will be giving possible astrological signs (based on traditional astrology, so no mars) and characters that resemble what I interpreted. please don't ask this on people who are not your future spouse! be respectful. MDNI! 🚫
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Your future spouse may appear to be difficult to read in their approach and attitude toward intimacy. Their approach is nonverbal. They are not the type of person who comes up to you abruptly, kisses you out of the blue and tells you he wants you right then and there and before you can react they are already undoing your buttons. No, no. He does it more with his eyes. An intense look. But calculating. They watch you carefully, and it takes them a while to show their desire for you on their face. Like when a lion watches its prey. They go slowly towards you. They study you and know your weak points and use them to their advantage to explore you. They don’t grab you roughly, or lean you against the wall. After breaking you down with their gaze, their actions are more restrained, slower. They do not lose control. They watch what makes you gasp and do it again and again until you can’t take anymore. Maybe it seems so controlled and as if you have no effect on them. Until you look straight into their eyes.
When things get intense and the atmosphere leaves a warmth in the air, and you look at them - they will find it hard to look you in the eye. Their pupils will turn away and they will hide their face in your neck. Their se*xua*l desires for you will revolve around the emotional connection you have. It won't be rough or wild. It will be rather deep, and even intense when they finds it hard to hold back as much. They will have a hard time expressing their desires to feel loved, wanted, or for either of you - safe in s*x. They are so observant that they need to feel safe before they let themself go completely. They are the type who will hug you for a long time after intimacy or look at you closely waiting for a reaction from you.
There will be times when he takes the dominant role: holding your chin for you to look at them while they caress you. But also in those moments where they feel emotionally more comfortable, they will let you take control. Like when you climb on top of them. They will respond passively and let you lead the way.
Signs: Venus in virgo (specially if it is in the 12th or 8th house), venus in taurus in the 4th house because it adds quiet intensity over the wild and combusting one, mercury in pisces (since it is in a fall sign, it makes communication weak), saturn conjunct venus. For characters, Kaz Brekker (TV Show) the intensity of his scenes with the girl when they were not even kissing resonates so much with this, Giyuu (Demon Slayer) for how deeply caring he is despite appearing cool and detached.
Your future spouse is quite open, warm in their approach and attitude towards intimacy with you. It will not be superficial at all. They will approach you and start caressing you leisurely, wrap you warmly and even look at you while doing so. They will enjoy foreplay quite a bit. They are the type who likes to explore every nook and cranny they can of your body before diving into you. Their hands will go around every curve while you feel their soft breath on your neck - letting you know you are safe.
They may, after intimacy, lace their fingers with yours and embrace you. If they go quiet or pensive it won't be out of discomfort — It's because they feel at peace staying close to you. They may leave kisses on your forehead or on your temple as they stare at the ceiling and have a leg over yours. They will highly value the emotional closeness they have with you after intimacy. They will like to feel comfortable without anything rushing or disturbing them when they are with you.
They are someone who adapts to your pace. They will relinquish control to you but not completely. Princess/prince/royalty treatment. They will spoil you. But It's not that they'll be someone passive, they just won't impose things on you and will adapt to what you want in the moment. A gentle dom. If they let you have control they'll still have constant gestures of firmness that are so subtle. They may rest their hand on your hip as you pick up the pace, press a kiss on your forehead when you feel over stimulated and whisper a soft "you can take it, baby, come on". Their se*xu*al style will make you feel pampered.
Signs: Venus or moon in taurus, or libra. Pisces comes to mind too. Venus in the 5th or 7th house. Good aspects with the moon and venus. Ascendant or rising ruler in 5th or 7th house. For characters, Gilbert Blythe (Anne with An E) mature though! The way he stared at Annie lovingly and how warmth he was with her gave me the same vibes. Jamie Fraser (Outlander), Taki Tachibana (Your Name).
Your future spouse is very patient and confident in intimacy with you. They love to flood themself in every pleasure they can get from s*x/intimacy with you. Especially if it involves all five senses. Candles, aromas, sensations, flavors, etc. The complete experience. For your spouse, intimacy with you is something to savor and enjoy without rushing. They will like to take their time with you. Multiple rounds even. This is the type of person who delights in and enjoys for*eplay. I usually leave the power dynamic at the end, but your spouse-to-be is naturally inclined to be more dominant.
They will give more than they get sometimes. You two will share that feeling of insatiability. But one thing they'll like is if you also do your part in the se*xua*l and intimate realm. They may like to give more than they get, they are a giver — but they also like to know that you're both on the same page. If you are quieter than usual, they will notice it — they will be attuned to your reactions. They like it when there is reciprocity not only se*xu*ally, but emotionally with you. They will have a hard time expressing this openly, so it is important that you are more attentive to reciprocity with your future spouse.
They want to create something committed and lasting with you. They will provide loyalty, commitment and security. This is something lasting. They are able to see that se*xu*al intimacy is not just about s*x — it involves commitment and sharing. They will be reliable, generous and a committed partner. They will remember what you like, what you love, what makes your skin shiver. Oh, and this is someone who is protective of you. Hickeys, strong grips. They will convey their dominance not loudly, but subtly. They will do things like manhandle you or hold you down in ways that make you remember who is really in charge.
Signs: Venus in Capricorn or Scorpio. Capricorn definitely in their chart somewhere. Venus doing a trine or sextile with Mercury because they are quite attune to your reactions. Mercury conjunct Venus in earth or water signs. Scorpio, where? I don’t know, but somewhere in their chart lmao. A good aspect between Saturn and Venus. Venus in domicile too. For characters, Anthony Bridgerton (Bridgerton) and how ardently that man was for Kate is so this description, Loid Forger (Spy x Family) the commitment and spouse material gave me the same vibes.
hi. The reading was very good and i hope it resonates. thank you so much again, have a good day/night 💘
Thank you lots for participating! :”) Hope you have a good day/night too~
Hiiii!
My initials: N
My rising: Taurus
My age: 23
In sidereal, my venus is within 10 degrees of aries.
My question: What should I do to become financially independent? If my question isn't phrased quite right, please just give me any advice surrounding this area of my life.
Thank you so much💕💕
What should N do to become financially independent?
I see a strong desire for independence and an ability to want to take charge and control over your finances. You have a good starting place, but it's as if you're looking the other way, as if you feel the urge to do something else. Which doesn't quite align with your situation. You're not currently in a bad terrible place, I don't know why you're having this urge to look away. But I guess it's a case of "the grass is always greener on the other side". You want to do so much at once but you need to take a breath. It looks like cultural or family pressure is influencing your attitude right now. It affects you in such a way that you fail to discern opportunities and dare not follow your inner voice. That inner voice that is not anxiety, but a voice that makes you think "hmm, I wish I had done x thing if I had not been so hard on myself". You should free yourself from that external pressure, so you can connect better with yourself; only then you can take better advantage of the opportunities or advantages that come to you. Because in the meantime, you will not be able to take advantage of them in this state. It is not that you need to take a “how to be more independent” course, or listen to someone else’s advice (LMAO). You have the ability to do it yourself, N, which is the funniest thing! Your approach should stop being so pessimistic and ahead of the worst and be more clear minded. Don't be so self-critical. Take control of your anxieties, don't let them cultivate irrational fears about your financial independence. Try to be more flexible with yourself.
I adore your page! Your latest PAC is shockingly similar to a situation I’m currently experiencing and just wanted to tell you—spot on. Pile 3❤️ thank you!
Aw, thank you babes! Glad it resonated
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Thank you so much for this reading. I'm side eyeing spirit for saying I'm not in a bad,terrible place cause I definitely am. The message was well articulated but hard to hear emotionally. It's all in my hand,that sounds more like a burden than empowering atm. But I'll try to marinate in it and see how I can apply the message to my life. Thank you again💓
your spirit, aw! i believe they are trying their best LMAO don’t get me wrong i can understand the frustration! i just find it quite adorable that this is their way of calming you down while you are seeing right through their ways lmao.
oh & i completely understand you about the financial distress… so take your time to process it and marinate into it. I completely understand how it can feel like a heavy burden to have the control of getting yourself out of a tough place. i don’t know exactly what your situation is but I’ve been there with financial struggles, and in my case it was the opposite. in the sense that when I pulled the cards it told me it was out of my hands. i remember the heavy feeling on my stomach when i got that from the cards while my life was falling apart (literally). my cards like to be straightforward just like my spirit guides. it was something completely external and all i could do was wait… it happened just like the cards told me. i was warned to do nothing while seeing everything fall apart and I was RESTLESS. so from what you are telling me, i can see how you are still in that state of mental stress that does not allow you to connect with your intuition. which is completely understandable don't get me wrong. but acknowledging how you feel is already a powerful step and it positions you closer to the other side. finding strength in situations like this is really hard but i'm around if you ever need a place to vent! sending you the best vibes and hope everything gets better for you soon, honey❣️
A CINDERELLA STORY (2004) dir. Mark Rosman