Your welcome <3 I’m very happy that it resonated 🥺❣️ Wishing you the best of lucks with it~~
hello! im here for the tarot game!
FMH
18
cancer rising
aries mc 4°
question: why am i struggling to score in my exams despite my efforts?
why is FMH struggling to score in their exams despite their efforts?
Your main obstacle is that you lack clarity about your ability to organize yourself well. Being strategic is your Achilles heel. There is a disconnect between your actions and intentions. To the point that it makes you feel like you are carrying the weight of the world because of this. Try not to be too encompassing and too unorganized. You need to plan better in the long term. There is energy you are wasting specifically because of the external expectations you have placed on yourself. They are not even your own expectations. You may even feel constantly evaluated because of that. Wanting to impress others before yourself, and it leads you to want to be all encompassing and not have a more structured plan of what you should be doing and what you should be working on. And then: Bam! You're left with that weight of the world on top of you. The reality is that this is not something that you value internally. You value the expectations of others so much that you haven't taken the time to know what you really value. Your method of study is quite unique and non-traditional, and you are stifling and suppressing it in a rigid method. The best approach you can have right now is one where you are not so rigid. You're not doing things for the love of it, or what you learn. You're doing it so rigidly trying to meet the expectations of others that it rightly makes you feel unhappy, stuck, and even causes you to procrastinate. You should look for a more flexible approach, something personalized to you that will help you reconnect with that inner motivation that will make you feel more creative and motivated to get things done.
In other words: Stop fighting your nature (in this case, your study style) and work with it. I also recommend using the "Emotional Anchoring" method. If your exams left you stressed out it is a technique that connects you emotionally and gives you motivation in your studies. You can check it here!
Hi! I’d love to participate in your game please ❤️
My initials are MB and I’m in my 20s.
My question is what is my FS like/our story?
Thank you 🌹
What is MB's future spouse like/their story?
10 of cups rx, the world
You'll meet them during a phase of self development. When you are figuring yourself out. When you're not actively looking for love, but instead you're working on yourself first. Maybe you'll be focused on following your career and out of nowhere you'll meet them. Your future spouse is a very resilient person. Grounded but cautious. They may have a strong exterior but they’ll make you feel calm and secure. I dare say they will be very successful or established when you meet them. They have a lot of integrity and will be good at their craft (whatever it is they decide to dedicate their lives to), but they can struggle with taking risks. Someone who weighs options heavily because they want to make sure it aligns with their long-term goals. They'll come across as quite passionate and determined. They'll take things slowly with you and be very committed.
Hey I read a pac of yours and you were talking about me!. It was so accurate. Just the confirmation I was waiting for . Thank you so much. Love ya! 😌
Aww reading this just made my day 😭💖 I’m so glad it resonated with you. Sometimes the right message shows up exactly when we need it. Thank you for taking the time to tell me, it honestly means a lot 🥺💞 Sending you a big hug!
i have 2 more asks left to finally reach 15!
angela lindvall by mert alas & marcus piggott for roberto cavalli f/w 2004
hii, for the feedback: 8 of wands is a very "foreigner" reading, so maybe we come from different countries? (Idk that's what came to my mind during the reading)
Thank you!!
Hellooo! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It's normal to interpret the cards based on perspectives but I like to keep each reading focused on the question asked to provide a more straightforward answer. For this free tarot game I pulled 2 cards for the questions and didn’t do a deep dive. It was a free tarot game after all. Also, one card alone can’t determine if someone will be from another country. My goal is to let the cards guide my response without adding anything beyond what was in the spread. It’s just my personal approach. Hopefully this approach sheds some light on things for you. Thanks again for trusting in the process!
Thank you so much! You hit the nail on the head with the creative part. When I opened this blog, I spent quite a while thinking about how I was going to decorate it, what readings I was going to do. In fact, I think I had the first one halfway done before I even opened the blog. I put a lot of effort and screen time into it.
I think that’s what made this bother me a bit more. I still have a lot to polish and improve, and even though I haven’t been very active since November, I hope I can continue and get better at it. The combination of feeling burnout from personal matters and then finding out about that was just bad timing. I really considered deleting this blog because of this. But these little messages have encouraged me a lot. I might actually leave this account as it is and not be too brash about it, lol 🫶🏽💛
I have noticed strong similarities between my content and this person's ever since I created my blog, and just a few days later, this person @/hermetiqa changed the aesthetic of theirs. I know i am a small blog with less than 400 followers and i disappear a lot. I have had sad experiences with plagiarism before, people have stolen my work (tarot and non tarot), and even if this isn’t exactly that, it’s really frustrating when someone with a bigger blog starts taking a lot of inspiration from you, never acknowledges it, you block them, and even after being blocked, they come back and keep doing it.
There’s no problem with being inspired, the issue is the context and how often it happens. Especially because this person changed their aesthetic after I opened my blog, along with their masterlist. I only found out now that they kept going because some friends outside my tarot blog told me. My last post was in November and guess what? So was theirs. I don’t know them, and they don’t know me. But the vibe here for me stinks bad. There’s also one thought that crossed my mind, even if it sounds silly: their blog has been around longer than mine, so what if I come back and they do it again? I won't feel comfortable because they made it weird. They could have said: oh and this masterlist was inspired by clairdelune. Like, they have paid readings, and are gaining money out of people. If you are having a business at least be transparent and support newcomers with their small business too when there's something you like or something you take inspo from.
PSA: I don't want anyone to give me advice on how to proceed, I just want to vent about this and not feel like I'm crazy. Even if it doesn't seem like it, this takes A LOT of time and days. Making tarot readings for a lot of public is draining because of the energies, and then decorating and coming up with something to make it look attractive is also draining. It's not a crime to get inspired, but the way this person has handled it has made me angry and feel a very bad energy around it.
For context this was their blog before:
It was simple, cute, straight to the point with three pictures. When you went down to read your pile, no section of "signs" with mbti or astrological placements where there. I love mbti, i checked their readings superficially and never noticed them referencing them. Here, you can see it for yourself:
then here's where it all started for me. This is what their masterlist looked like before:
Now this is what it looked like after taking inspiration from me and not even changing the roman numbers. Just changing small details but the essence is there. That's the difference with inspo and copy. You can take inspo from someone but the essence is going to be yours. If they did not change a few little tiny things, this would be confused with mine.
After this I blocked them. My thought process was: If they are a big blog and can do this with no one raising their eyebrows, It's safe to say they could even take inspo from my pictures and even readings. I don't know them, I don't know if this could be a one time thing or something that can continue, or worse: something that can enter plagiarism. I was hoping this would be enough for them to never see my blog again. But no. It kept going. At least they haven't copied what i write as I am aware.
Now, this can get tricky because unlike plagiarism, this is more inspiration based. Which is not a crime, but again, this being done heavily, with no acknowledgement whatsoever because i am a lesser known blog and after getting blocked? Not so nice and too much to be coincidence. Check the dates.
Same months, and this one took two weeks because before that, they posted another reading in between. I mean, putting floating png objects is not a trademark. But after I blocked them for what they did with my masterlist it pissed me off. Right now, them gaining more interactions with their post after this and with no acknowledgement is what did not sit well with me. It is hard to be a new blog in the tarot community and opening a ton of ask games for people to then unfollow you when they get their energy and reading from you and never interact with your blog again. Specially when this was a chance for you to get some money for college. But then again, seeing the strong similarities gets tricky, but you can see the inspiration.
Mine:
Theirs:
They never posted that section before. You can see it in their readings before, right? So when I started posting it too, guess what? they did it too. You know, it doesn’t feel fair that even after blocking them so they would leave me alone and find someone else to get inspired by, they still have this recurrent thing with me and might keep doing it with anything new I come up with. Because i stopped posting readings, the last reading I posted was the same theme (romantic partner) and with strong similarities as mine. I have not posted ever since. The one before that for me was future spouse related and theirs too. You know what's crazy? Mine got a lot of trouble and issues with the aesthetic I had to pull it down. This person's energy is so down heavy it made me put down my reading.
This can be called speculation, but we are in a spiritual community and I believe this could not be a coincidence and their energy towards me is not a good one. You can check the date. All in november. This is also a warning for other tarot readers, if you are sensitive like me with people's vibes, beware when opening a tarot blog.
They don't just do it with one thing and move on, they keep doing it with several things even after not being well received by my end, and it becomes annoying and it literally made me put my own post down.
I just want to leave this here before closing this blog and moving on, because honestly this hasn't been my year and I know it’s just starting, but little things like this don't give me a good vibe to keep running such an open blog to any audience. The energy is so draining and I want to do impulsive things like deleting my posts. Because I start thinking back to times where people straight up stole my work or envied it and posted it as theirs and I don't want that happening again.
Again, please, be mindful with your comments. If you have something rude to say, keep it.
Casually dropping his hyper fixation into the convo so he’s forced to talk to me for another hour
Hi, hope you're fine. I'm NM, 22 and i would like to ask if my future spouse will reach out to me soon
Thanks in advance 😊
Will NM's future spouse reach out to them soon?
5 of wands rx & temperance rx
They won't reach out to you soon. Neither of you are ready to take that step yet. By the look of the cards it seems you already know your future spouse, but things between you two have been a little messy or maybe even strained. There is a possibility that I may have simply channeled the intense energy you are experiencing in your life right now and may be mistaken lmao. Anyways, It's as if you want to move on from a recent heartbreak but lack the trust or drive to do so. They, too, are not in the best position to reach out. They need to work on themselves and get their lives in order (there's a lot of emotional/personal struggles in their lives as of now) before they can reach out and start anything serious. As of right now, it's not their top priority.
Just a reminder that the tarot game closed two weeks ago. I know a lot of you have been enjoying it, and I really appreciate all the interest and enthusiasm. But the message about the x-kit issue had nothing to do with the tarot game. I hope that clears things up! Thank you for your understanding and support. Please avoid sending any more questions for the game, as they won’t be answered. Right now, I’m only accepting questions about the pick a pile readings I’ve done. Thanks to everyone who participated!