I love you pre-transition trans people. whether you're coming out tomorrow or you've been in and will be in the closet for years. your experiences are important and your voice is important. I hope you're having a good day 💜
I know im supposed to love myself and be happy but god damn is it hard. There's days where i can say, "yeah i look really cute" or if i need to say something nice about myself i can say, "i have a nice smile" but there are other days where i just cant.
Im just exhausted and i can only see a fat tummy and chubby arms with no muscle and a small double chin and weird legs and a feminine smile and feminine eyes and too big hips and no facial hair and and and
I can see these things in other people and be enamored and be gaping at their beauty. Its just not okay for me to have these things. I know thats not true, but i still think it
I dont know what to do
I gotta know if anyone who has a vertical labret also has trouble finding jewelry!
Like everything online is for eyebrows which are too curved for the vertical labret and there aren't any pericing shops near me😩
Where do yall get the fun jewelry ????
Do any other fem transmen get weird about their leg hair? Like i love to dress feminine with skirts and dresses, and I feel like I should shave my legs to make it look right. I know that's not true, and body hair is neither masculine nor feminine, and it's natural. I also have no desire to shave my legs because I would feel dysphoric.
No one is telling me to shave or anything, but I think after living as a girl for so long in a society that pushes a hairless beauty standard, I always feel like I should shave or trim my body hair.
Does anyone else feel this way?
please
New tattoo parlor and flower shop:
Skate shop and boutique
I got called by my choosen name IRL by someone I was not previously friends with and and I cannot describe how awesome it felt
He's friends with this other buddy of mine so I'm guessing that's how he knew about it
Like this bisexual drunken cowboy (inside joke might explain in reblogs if I feel like it) saw me and really said "Hey (chosen name" and didn't make a big deal out of it and then asked if I like Hazbin Hotel and I'm like
!!!!!! THIS MAN KNOWS !!!!!! I DON'T HAVE TO TELL HIM !!!!! HE (a cis guy) KNOWS AND HE IS CHILL !!!!!
I fuckin love my dad :)
About to come out as a boy to my dad
Wish me luck
GET. AI. OUT. OF. FANDOM. Stop making headcanons with it, stop making fanfic with it, stop making fanart with it. If I see one more "asking chatgpt *blank* about *character/characters in a fandom* I'm going to lose my goddamn mind. Use your own fucking brain, stop asking AI to do everything. You could even ask other real people what they think. Just. Stop. Using. AI. In. Creative. Spaces.