is he “trauma dumping” on you or have you just not unpacked what the patriarchy has taught you outside of “woman bad” and you think men expressing any kind of emotion or vulnerability is bad actually.
Tragic: this song's actual lyrics don't fit my blorbo as well as the lyrics I misheard
I feel like it would be useful if people conceived of causing emotional harm to others more through the lens of being the emotional equivalent to stepping on someone’s foot. Like obviously you can step on someone’s foot deliberately and maliciously, but most of the time if someone tells you you stepped on their foot you’re going to go “oh sorry I didn’t realise!” and stop doing it and try not to do it again. Getting caught up in how it makes you feel to be Someone Capable of Stepping on Others’ Feet would be a transparently self indulgent distraction from the other person’s pain, but also like… that’s just a status you hold by virtue of being human. Never ever ever stepping on someone’s foot is not really achievable, and therefore is not necessary to being a Good Person: what matters is that you do not step on others’ feet deliberately, and – most importantly – that you react kindly and calmly to any inadvertent foot-stepping you have been doing being brought to your attention, so that you can make best use of it as something that will help you reduce the amount of foot-stepping you will do in the future.
Someone told me my hair and fashion style was “too 2010s.” It’s only been two years. Please!😭😭😭
Pardon me while I throw everything I own away and buy hundreds of dollars of now clothes so I can be one of the cool kids.
Seriously though, who has the time, money and energy to completely reinvent themselves every time a new style drops. Not me. 👋
Sometimes I think about going outside and making some real friends, but then I remember real people are assholes.
Bi and ace pride sheep!
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"Gifted kid" primary schooler to daydreaming highschooler pipeline.
family appalled that their very quiet well behaved mature child who never caused any problems has grown up and turned out to have many many problems. more news at 8!
For my mental health, I will be blocking anyone who kills my vibes.
hey if you're a UK resident can you sign this petition and if not please rb to spread the word
this is an official UK government petition that they have to respond to if it reaches 10,000 signatures
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