You Deserve To Make Room For Yourself The Same Way You Do For Others.

You deserve to make room for yourself the same way you do for others.

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Just like others, you are a person! If you are struggling to love yourself, consider how you treat yourself. Would you authentically love someone who talks to you the way you do? How can you expect to love yourself when you wouldn't even be friends with someone who treats others that way? It is an act of self-disrespect to ignore your own needs and desires.

I don't say this to make you feel ashamed of your self-talk, but rather to invoke a look outside for a change. We are always looking inside ourselves so often that we don't notice our simple worth as a person, a human, a being on the earth. Millions of people consider themselves the one exception.

You deserve to eat yummy foods like our friends do. You deserve to be treated with respect like our peers do. You deserve to feel the sun on your face the same way a flower does. You deserve to forgive yourself for things that you regret. You deserve more than "I'm used to it." You deserve to move your body the same way a dog deserves to be taken on a walk. You deserve to live a fulfilling life where your needs are met.

It's time to apologize to yourself. It's time to take accountability for all the ways you antagonized yourself. It's time to mend the relationship with your own body and your own mind. You don't have to keep fighting with yourself, you are allowed to repair things that have been broken. Offer yourself grace and kindness, just as you would for others. Forgive yourself by making it up to yourself.

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Emergency aid for Turkey & Syria

Muslims Around The World Project -https://matwproject.org/product/emergencies/

Abdullah aid - https://www.abdullahaid.org.uk/

Ilmfeed -https://www.launchgood.com/campaign/turkey__syria_earthquake_emergency_appeal#!/

Islamic Relief UK - https://www.islamic-relief.org.uk/giving/appeals/turkiye-syria-earthquake-appeal/

With Khaled Beydoun - https://www.launchgood.com/campaign/turkey_emergency_earthquake_relief#!/

Muslim Aid Sweden - https://muslimaid.se/donations/jordbavning/

I have gathered reliable sources for donations and you can check these accounts too. Please feel free to add sources that you also trust. Please share!

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The mindset of a Muslimah

• Allah is a Loving rabb

• Allah is the most forgiving, the most merciful. As a Muslimah you have to believe this, you have to believe that if you sincerely ask Allah for forgiveness Allah will forgive you even if you have sinned your entire life, Allahs forgiveness and mercy are greater. So forgive yourself and learn from your mistake and keep trying to strengthen your connection with Allah because as long as you’re living it’s never too late to turn back to Allah. Allah would not have given himself these names if they weren’t true. So turn back to your rabb, ask for forgiveness, learn, move on, and try avoiding committing that sin again.

• There is no life without prayer, as soon as you start neglecting the salah your life will start to fall apart in the sense that you will start to feel sadness for no reason, a heavy weight will lay on your chest. And as soon as you start praying, you will feel the weight being lifted away from your heart because your heart will be at peace. Don’t ever think “I cannot pray because I have sinned to much”, that is the whisper of shaytan. It’s like saying “I can’t shower because I’m to dirty.” We pray to clean our hearts. It does not matter how much you have sinned ALLAH IS THE MOST MERCIFUL, ALLAH IS THE MOST FORGIVING.

Allah says: “Take one step towards me, I will take ten steps toward you. Walk towards me and I will run towards you.”

- Hadith Qudsi

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