Workouts & Stretches You Can Do In Bed

Me, coming back to tumblr after a binge period, pretending like it never happened:

u know what makes me lowkey sad? when someone says ‘i know it seems silly’ before talking about something they clearly care very deeply about bc u know that means someone gave them shit for caring that much about that thing before which is Fucked Up.

Your guide to REAL selfcare

If you go on any social media and type "selfcare", all you recieve is pretty girls doing extravegant skincare, dior makeup and all. But the problem is everyone does the same thing and things just cant work same for everyone. Also, It doesnt feels authentic rather it feels like consumerism. So, I am gonna tell what to do so you feel the best.

Knowing yourself:-

You can only do yourself a favour if you know yourself and the best way to do that is JOURNAL.

If you are new to it, then you can search journal prompt ideas on pinterest and make that a part of your routine. It helps so much.

Do shadow work. Go on pinterest and do the same thing.

Dont be ashamed of yourself, rather accept yourself and change for the better. When you'll journal then you will get to know tons of good and bad things about you but our brain loves to focus on negative things so u might get stuck on that.

Record your likes and dislikes. Which books you loved, which dramas you adore, which food makes you comfy and which movies you wasted your time on. Record these things, this is just so fun and helpful when you feel "bored" or sad.

Being Mindful:-

Most of the time, the problem is not that big but our thoughts just traps us and we feel that problem is bigger than it might so take a step back and try to not overthink about past or future.

I know this is easier said than done but meditating helps a lot with mindfulness.

When you watch a movie or drama or even ytube video then just do that. Dont scroll reddit reading the "discussion" thread of the episode or try to find instrumentals on spotify for reading books. Just do one thing at once.

Dont multitask. Just take a task and then focus on that. (This might not work for neurodivergent people.)

Do 5,4,3,2,1 grounding technique. Identify

5 things you can see 4 things you can feel 3 things you can hear 2 things you can smell 1 thing you can taste.

Cut negative people off

This is so hard because you feel mean for doing this but once you cutoff toxic people who just drags other people down and all they talk is negativity then your life become so much better.

Cut off all the negative content you watch and limit the time you spend on social media.

Do your future self a favour

This is truly the best selfcare.

Study hard cause' your future self will thank you for letting her be the top student

Learn some skills. Read those books. Watch that documentry. Do things that will make your future self proud.

Some selfcare ideas

Organizing and planning

excercise or take a walk.

Reading books.

Cleaning your room

Watching fun movies

Studying about yourself. Knowing what products suits your skin and your hair. What color brighten you and what makes you look dull. What haircut looks good on your face and what clothes flatters on your body.

Get your nails done.

Listen to your fav album while painting, baking, or gardening.

Do your hobby without feeling presurrized. No you dont need to read 50 books a year, chill out and enjoy while doing it.

Dairy writing. Its so fun to read what your day looked like on a random tuesday after 2-3 years.

Explore new things in your hometown. Maybe there is a new cafe that opened 2 weeks ago or there is a hiking trail you are not aware of? its always fun to do that.

I love my little ball of fluff 🧸❤️

What to do instead of eating 🦋✨

Cleaning session ✨

Clean your bathroom. Really scrub your toilet.

If you have a yard, clean it

Organize your wardrobe

Do the dishes

Take out the trash

Sweep

Take the dust off your desks, bookshelfs or whatever you have in your home

Organize the food shelf

Clean your fridge

Organize your kitchen utensils

Do laundry. Probably you been wearing the same shirt for some days.

Selfcare session ✨

Deep condish your hair. You have split ends.

Do your nails.

Fix your eyebrows.

Take a long hot shower and exfoliate.

Skincare.

SLEEP.

Fun things to do ✨

Play videogames.

Read a good book.

Study.

Message a friend, or even call.

Watch a movie. Or binge watch your favorite Netflix show.

Did I already say sleep?

Create a visionboard on Pinterest.

Set goals, not talking about weight. Set career goals, for example.

Take a fun class, learn pottery or knitting.

• Ten Day Workout Plan •

Workouts to gain back your lost fitness

Day 1:

15 sit ups

5 crunches

30 sec plank

20 V- ups

10 push-ups

25 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 2:

20 sit ups

10 crunches

30 sec plank

20 V-ups

12 push-ups

30 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 3:

25 sit ups

15 crunches

35 sec plank

30 V-ups

15 push-ups

35 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 4:

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 5:

30 sit ups

20 crunches

40 sec plank

30 V-ups

20 push-ups

40 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 6:

35 sit ups

25 crunches

45 sec plank

35 V-ups

25 push-ups

45 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 7:

40 sit ups

30 crunches

50 sec plank

35 V-ups

30 push-ups

50 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 8:

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 9:

45 sit ups

35 crunches

55 sec plank

40 V-ups

35 push-ups

55 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 10:

50 sit ups

40 crunches

60 sec plank

40 V-ups

40 push-ups

60 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Tips:

If You Need More Days To Gain Back Your Fitness, Just Follow The Pattern.

Drink A Lot Of Water.

Try To Eat Fruits And Vegs.

Do Each Workout Slowly, Make Sure Your Body Is Fully Engaged.

If You Get Tired, Take Breaks And Then Continue.

Don’t Give Up And Stay SAFE

Reblog if you started worrying about your weight before you were fourteen.

Someone: oh there’s this show I’m watching... oh, nevermind, it’s silly you probably don’t wanna hear about it

Me, knowing fully well how much it sucks to have your passions invalidated and how cool it is to rant about something you love: