Okay hi hello! Resident ace spectrum person of fandom space! I can confidently say that no it is not a recipe for eventual problems or break ups. I've literally been in a relationship for five years going on six this month. I found out I was on the ace spectrum about a year into dating my two partners and when I voiced that I might be ace I was encouraged to find out about myself. I was told I was still loved by both of them and it didn't change our relationship. If you find someone you really love and really loves you it won't matter to them. Sex is not integral to a relationship all the time and it shouldn't be the backbone of your love towards someone. Assuming that sex plays such a large part in a relationship is damaging for both asexual and allosexual individuals because it sets an expectation that you can only please and attract someone with your body and nothing else in the relationship matters (it's like when people say "your relationship is failing maybe you should put out more" or "was your sex game really that bad?"). This is not the case though, having an open talk about expectations of sex in a relationship and expressing your low, non-existent, or repulsed view on sexual activity is normal and should happen in all relationships even for allosexual individuals. It lets you know where your relationship stands with someone because if they truly only care about your relationship when they thought sex was on the table it probably wouldn't work out in the future anyways regardless of your view on sex. No one deserves to be put down or told that they have to seek out someone just like them (which is easier said than done) just to find love. Please if you share the same view as the person in the third post please take a second to reevaluate your view on sex and why you believe it's so important in a relationship that you think an ace person can't have working relationships with people outside of other ace individuals because I assure you we can.
one of my fandom litmus tests is whether or not ppl think asexual characters can be in relationships because some of y’all would rather write five paragraph essays explaining why you can’t ship them with anyone than redefine the way you view love (aka acknowledge rather than invalidate relationships that have no sexual physicality)
Funny story (not really a story or funny but whateves) at my house ever since I was a small child we have never celebrated valentines day with a boyfriend or girlfriend until around six years ago because my siblings boyfriends birthday is on valentines day. We buy or make gifts for each other and make them look all pretty and give them to each other on valentines day. We like to also include friends in this sometimes and in eighth grade I bought a dress a whole bouquet of orange roses chocolate strawberries and a couple stuffies and gave them all to my best friend and we had a whole day of fun! I like my tradition a lot because we include friends family and lovers. To us valentines is a day for relationships and love, that includes all types of relationships and all types of love.
They're only sketches but I think he came out cute in both I hope you like him!
Also my MerMay Sanji sketch for the day (I know the fish looks ugly af but it's just a sketch no one come for me!)
Right now i'm inside your brain, I'm telling you to draw Chubby!Sanji fanarts- and i'm convincing you.
Yk it doesn't even has to be a fanart, u could write a 500 words fic and imma still read it 😭🙏
Feferi appoints me as her royal adviser while laughing... HOLY CARP I GOTTA TELL MY RP GROUP!
As you all are aware, this blog explicitly stands with Palestine during the yet ongoing genocide done by Israel. Because I've made my stance clear, several Palestinians on Tumblr have reached out to me to help spread their campaigns and get them aid. I've tracked down verifications for as many as i could, and will list them all here with links and update this list should another be sent in.
I cannot stress this enough. As of writing this, the siege on Gaza has been happening for almost a year. Most non-profit organizations at this point have incredibly limited reach in the area (if they still have any at all), and thus the most surefire way of helping is via sending money directly to those impacted. If you for whatever reason doubt the legitimacy of a campaign listed here, I humbly request you keep it to yourself. I cannot decide for you what you do with your money, but I can ask of you that you have respect for people struggling and be considerate.
@kareem-family2 GoFundMe link €10,285/€20,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #283
@abedalazeiz GoFundMe link €36,220/€90,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost
@dinamahammed99 GoFundMe link $5,795/$15,000 Verified by association to @mahmoud1995 (source 1 | source 2)
@mahmoud1995 GoFundMe link $15,011/$50,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost
@ashraf-baker5 GoFundMe link €22,863/€25,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost
@hamdishiltawi GoFundMe link €1,857/€20,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #285
@atalah-mohammed GoFundMe link €16,594/€82,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost
@samerpal GoFundMe link kr138,493/kr450,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #196
@karamalmadhoun0 GoFundMe link €17,037/€20,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #109
@danaghaith GoFundMe link $7,682/$60,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost
@alhabil GoFundMe link €29,140/€50,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #166
@springbutterfly37 GoFundMe link $1,958/$45,000 NOTE: This fundraiser appears to have been verified by association, however most evidence of this has been lost to blog deactivation. A brief reverse image search of the blog's photos came up clean.
@abedallhferwanagaza GoFundMe link €5,502/€35,000 NOTE: According to this post, this fundraiser has been vetted by a Telegram user by the name of Femme Intifada. I am unfamiliar with this person, and have no knowledge of their validity as a vetter.
"Thank you for coming to Their Ted Talk, please exit through the door on your left. Hmm? Yes that was the whole talk, it was full of great wisdom in my opinion."
yusuke kitagawa is trans
Okay so I sleep with my door closed, my brother doesn't care (we share a room so I have to convince him to close the door when we go to bed), and my sister keeps the door open so mixed results across the board in my house. I'm incredibly superstitious and I don't like leaving doors open at night as it causes my anxiety to spike and often makes me spiral and will give me some form of sleep problem. Also to go with this I also don't go to bed until I put at least one thing on all the sitting places in our house (chairs/coach) because I believe it invites unsavory visitors to take a sit and chill out, so yeah.
wait people sleep with their doors closed????
What happens when you grow old but never grow up and your childhood bad ideas are now adults ones? This, this is what happens, absolute comedy gold!
“XIAO QIAO!! WHERE DID YOU GO”
Trans girl Yusuke is my shit dude. I love coming up with stuff for her, sadly there's only like one or two fics out there with her. 😔
okay this line from rising phoenix got me to thinking;
“Ya sure?” Ryuji said, glancing around himself. “The only blue hair I see are some girls. I mean, I guess they could be a girl, but - ”
i actually thought that yusuke was going to be a girl at first - idk why i just did - up until yusuke was revealled still to be well, himself. now for some reason i want someone to write a persona 5 au where everythings the same except yusuke is a girl (either cis or trans!)
I was not expecting to see wild eyed Yusuke out of nowhere but I have and now this pic will stay in my brain for the next week. thank you op
Oh I have some of those apps! Its what I do my art on but I'm still learning how to navigate it since I don't really know how to color (and I'm still getting used to layers, but they're sooooo helpful!) but it is really fun! I recommend ibis x. Its free so you don't have to pay for the basics but you can watch a single ad and get all these cool brushes for like 18 hours or something. Its cool is what I'm saying.
Hi Hi call me Kai He/They/Ze Panromantic Aegosexual I struggle with tones so please be patient with me! 💙
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