Kirbys-lover - Memes 👌

You are not a creep if you find yourself sexy with your disability aids. full stop. If your partner is disabled, you are not fetishizing them if you find them sexy when they're in their wheelchair, or wearing their diaper, or have braces on, etc.

Disabled people are allowed to feel sexy and people are allowed to find them sexy. People with facial/limb differences and other physical differences are allowed to feel sexy and people are allowed to be attracted to them.

The problem comes from lack of consent and dehumanization. Expecting all disabled people to fit your sexual fantasy and sexualizing them openly without their consent (i.e. posting/reblogging normal pictures of a disabled person on your fetish blog or sexually harassing a disabled stranger) is fetishization and horrible. Asking us how we have sex or taking secret photos of us to jack off to later is creepy and crossing the boundry into dehumanizing fetishization. Seeing us and our sexuality as an oddity or a funny joke is not okay.

Reminder, sex toys were first and foremost created by and for disabled people. We have always been having sex and have always been seen as attractive by our admirers, without them fetishizing us. Having sex with a consenting disabled person isnt rape, and yes it is possible for us to eagerly consent! While some disabilities make it hard to consent, that isn't true for all of us.

We get horny, we have sex, we jack off, we wear sexy clothes and show off our bodies. We aren't freak shows for abled peoples amusement nor objects for fetishization. We aren't poor innocent virgins who don't know what sex is, we are a diverse and beautiful community all connected by our disabilities.

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The writers vs the fandom

82 YEARS AGO - BATMAN DEBUTED FOR THE FIRST TIME Eighty-two years ago on March 30, 1939, Detective Comics #27 hit newsstands, introducing the Caped Crusader for the very first time in a featured story called “The Case of the Chemical Syndicate.”

“And for all that fierce exterior, I’ve never met anyone who cared as deeply about his fellow man as Bruce Wayne.”  - Amanda Waller, Justice League Unlimited, Season 2 Episode 13 (2005)

Some other edits I did 🤙

Shoutout to the “gross” disabled people.

Shoutout to my homies who puke

Shoutout to my homies with ostomies

Shoutout to my homies with catheters

Shoutout to my homies who drool

Shoutout to my homies with facial disfigurements/differences

Shoutout to my homies in diapers

Shoutout to my homies who struggle with personal hygiene

Shoutout to every disabled person who’s ever been called “gross”

Y’all are beautiful and perfect the way you are. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

Any other littles wish they had a cg but don't know if they could ever let their guard down enough to regress in front of another person? Cuz same

Last song: resilience by peirce the veil

3 ships: byler (stranger things)

kagomei/inuyasha (inuyasha)

Killua/Gon (HxH)

Currently reading: nothing but homework/textbooks :/

Last movie: the bridge curse (kinda sucked ngl. Was supposed to be scary but it was not)

Craving: cookies. Any and all types of cookies.

Tags: I have no friends so ig @raointean

TAG GAME

Tagged by: @silmarillionopsessed - thank you so much!

Last song:

The Rules for Lovers - Richard Walters

3 ships:

Elrond/Celebrían (LOTR)

Elrond/Celebrimbor (LOTR: TRoP)

Joel&Ellie (TLoU)

Currently reading

Rhythm of War - Brandon Sanderson A Game of Thrones - GRRM

Probably also about to pick up either Ender's Shadow or House of the Scorpion for the 5000th time, we'll see.

Last movie

The Menu (2022) - so so good. Having spent many years working in restaurants and also being an avid lover of horror and dark humor, it's one of my favorite movies I've watched in the past five years, easily.

Craving

I was craving lasagna so I made some for lunch and just about cried. My tummy stopped being able to handle dairy once I hit the 25+ threshold and I managed to make a dairy free lasagna today and yeah...literally was crying into my bowl at how happy i was.



Tags:

@tuuliii @ramyun-monster @creativity-of-death @the-commonplace-book @eldritchteletubbie @raointean @valasania-the-pale @medusas-hairband @jaz-the-bard and anyone else who sees this and wants to join in! Tag me! I need new book and song recs.

FUCK THIS COUNTRY