I'm In On The Calendar Project!🥳

real event that occured that i cant stop thinking about

Girls when they need to buy eggs from the store

GOOOOOOOOO YOU FUCKING HORNSE!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Relationships are about helping each other grow and that involves emotional labor on both parts both big and small things. If you know your partner has some sort of anxiety issue or w/e sending “hey i’ll be busy today i’ll text you when i can love you” will literally absolve so many issues in less than 30 seconds. But you freaks up here seem to think that caring about someone and catering to them (to a certain degree) is weird and unhealthy. And you wonder why you have no good relationships romantic or platonic. 

so excited to watch myself grow into an even more confident, sexy, inspiring, kind, successful and overall amazing woman

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Reading Recommendations Part III

Manwha/WEBTOONs/Manhua

It has been a long time since I have made of list of stories I recommend reading. So far I’ve been reading manwha more than manga. Some are well known and others may not be but I hope one of these stories grabs your interest ^^

The Abandoned Empress

The Justice of a villainous woman

Pixel of life

Daughter of the Emperor

I’m a child of this house

Queen with a scalpel or Doctor Elise

Inso’s law

The maid and the vampire

Lady Baby

My lord, the wolf queen

Suddenly became a princess one day/ who made me a princess

Survive as the hero’s wife

Prince, don’t do this!

The real reason Realiana ended at the Duke’s mansion

Empress of another world (completed)

Light and shadow (completed)

Why, are you doing this Duke?

The expensive ex-wife of a wealthy family

When doctor chu wants romance

Across the dangerous ocean

CEO’s sudden proposal

Love between you and me

Stay with the CEO (completed)

Sincerely, I became a duke’s maid

Choco latte

True beauty

Siren’s lament

I love yoo

A good day to be a dog

Days of Hana

Edith

Subzero

Age matters

Freaking romance

Lore Olympus

The girl and the geek (completed)

The office blind date

Iris lady with a smartphone

Untouchable (massstar) (completed)

Lady Beast

The temptation of a cat demon

Eggnoid

Oh! Holy

I was xxx by my idol

Love like. cherryblossoms (completed)

Pharoah’s concubine

Zero point idol

Check out my post part IV here

Daydreaming: Maladaptive VS Immersive

Note: I am not a health/psychology professional by any means; this is simply a list I've put together from my own understanding and experiences on the topic, based upon various readings/research I found online. I hope it may be helpful/informative to read regardless, feel free to add on or correct this!

Maladaptive Daydreaming:

Excessive daydreaming; becoming absorbed in and fixated on daydream events, scenes, characters, or worlds.

Used as a form of escapism, often to avoid dealing with real-life situations (traumatic, unpleasant, or otherwise).

More interested and/or focused on the daydream/inner world than the real world, or on daydream relationships rather than real-life ones.

Difficulty or inability to stop daydreaming, even when real-life tasks need to be done.

An excessive/large amount of time is spent daydreaming, instead of being fully present in real-life events.

A desire to be like the idealized, daydream version of themself or their characters (/feeling inadequate with self in reality).

May feel a loss of control over daydreams, or when/where daydreaming occurs.

Some describe maladaptive daydreaming as an "addiction to daydreaming".

Many feel embarrassed or ashamed of (the extent of) their daydreaming.

Some individuals experience maladaptive daydreaming as a form of dissociation.

Often occurs in individuals with ADHD, depression, anxiety disorders, PTSD, and those who have experienced significant stress, abuse, and/or trauma.

Though the daydreams themselves may be enjoyable/pleasant/comforting, the lack of control and difficulty focusing on reality causes distress to the daydreamer.

If this daydreaming causes significant impairment in daily life and regular distress to the individual, they may have Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder (MaDD).

Immersive Daydreaming:

Simillar to maladaptive daydreaming, but instead, is a more positive way of coping.

The individual is present in real-life relationships, and in their own plans for the future.

Able to stop daydreaming when real-life tasks need to be attended to. Has a solid sense of control over their daydreaming.

Uses daydreaming as a healthy coping mechanism for dealing with stress/trauma/illness/conflict etc, rather than using it to avoid these situations.

BOTH Maladaptive and Immersive Daydreamers (May) Experience:

Very vivid, often extensively detailed daydreams. (Can be visual, auditory, or a mixture of sensory events.)

Feeling the emotions or sensations that are happening in the daydream through the body, as if they were really happening.

Strong attachments or connections to daydream characters (often called "paras").

Presence of an inner world(s)/universe(s), where daydream events take place ("paracosm", "dreamverse").

A sense of "autonomy" regarding character interaction, and/or being "influenced" by their characters.

Repetitive physical activity while daydreaming (pacing, tapping, rocking, etc.)

Speaking daydream dialogue aloud, and/or physically emoting facial expressions while daydreaming.

Real life events triggering daydreams (music, and other media are common daydream triggers.)

"You're so creative!", "You've got an overactive imagination."

* Someone can experience both Maladaptive and Immersive Daydreaming within their lifetime/during different times in their lives!

Immersive daydreaming may become maladaptive if it starts getting out of hand (perhaps after a stressful/traumatic event, or the onset of another disorder). Maladaptive daydreaming can be turned into immersive daydreaming (to cope, or to de-stress), with the help of therapy.

(Thank you for reading! 💌)

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