Men Will Never Understand This Pain.

thinking about redoing my accounts theme ☺️☺️ idk if i’ll regret it forever or if it’ll be the best decision everrr

someone said "hozier doesn't write about love, he writes about devotion" and i haven't slept peacefully since

— ★ !! taglist

if you’d like to join my taglist, all you have to do is comment below any of my posts and tell me what you’d like to be tagged in. if you don’t want to comment publicly, you can message me and i’ll gladly add you.

you can specify and ask for certain fandoms / people to be tagged in. or you can ask to be mentioned in all of my posts !!

despite what you specified, you’ll be listed in this post. this is because it’ll make it easier for me to keep track of all of you and your usernames :)

my taglist is listed below <3

@kasqnxx @lvrsparadise @prettysturniolo @strniolo @cupidsturniolo @urmyslxt @opheliaofficial07 @thetriplets3 @sturn1olo-ffics @uhnanix @deadxrx @kitaysworld @slaysturniolo @wilmalovegood @ladylokilaufeyson5 @sturniolopepsi @strnilolo @knowingnothingnoel @its-jennarose @lea0518 @slaysturniolo @sturnlover @tcvazq @ifilwtmfc @poopydroopt @cl0esblogg @ellaynaa

being a woman is such a magical yet belittling thing to experience. it’s so so so important to make sure you take time to reflect and love yourself for who you are.

Do you have any advice for young women?

In general? Sure. Read whatever you can get your hands on, but especially work written by women. Put your hands in sticky things at least once a week (clay, paint, dough, soil), don’t date anyone for a few years, travel when you can where you can, learn the skill of listening to your body— rest when you are tired, eat when you are hungry, drink when you are thirsty, and move when you are anxious. Swim as often as you can. Try to live alone at least once. If you can’t live alone, make time to be alone often. Carry pepperspray and do not learn to hold your tongue. Learn to sew, or weave, or knit. Unlearn the impulse to apologize for things that are not your fault. Pleasure yourself. Every once in a while, remind yourself of how loudly you can yell, how quickly you can run, and wildly you can dance. Allow yourself to cry for your mother. Spend as much time as you can in female-only spaces. Spend even more time with older women. Listen to their stories. Memorize their gray hair and lined faces, their swollen joints and sagging breasts. Cherish the gradual appearance of these things in yourself as an inheritance. Hold hands with other women. Spend some time naked in your home. Adopt a cat, or a fish, or grow some caterpillars into butterflies on your window. Eat heartily and drink to enjoy it. Go hiking and scream from a peak somewhere. Sometimes, allow yourself to act like a child again— climb a tree, scrape up your knees, and lick cake batter from the spoon. When you clean your home, open all the windows and beat the dust from all the curtains. Laugh loudly. Do not become self-deprecating to encourage others to laugh with you.

i’m not posting any more chapters for absence because i need to work on my wattpad fic and maybe i’ll write something else for on here we’ll see 🤙

— ★ !! 13

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a/n : longer chapter this time !!

tags : @kasqnxx @lvrsparadise @prettysturniolo @strniolo @urmyslxt @cupidsturniolo

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a/n : i hope it’s not confusing that the first gc is in chris’s perspective 😭😭 i didn’t know who’s pov to put it in since none of them are the MAIN main characters, but i decided on chris and im hoping it’s not too weird

tags : @kasqnxx @lvrsparadise

— ★ !! four

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a/n : hope u guys have seen gravity falls bc if not this’ll be a bit confusing 🫤

tags : @kasqnxx @lvrsparadise @prettysturniolo @strniolo @urmyslxt @cupidsturniolo @opheliaofficial07 @thetriplets3 @sturn1olo-ffics @uhnanix @deadxrx @kitaysworld @slaysturniolo @wilmalovegood @ladylokilaufeyson5 @sturniolopepsi @strnilolo

— ★ !! absence

pairing : matt sturniolo x fem! reader

synopsis : after a huge misunderstanding, you decide to go ghost on social media for some time to yourself…

a/n : about two years ago, i was obsessed with tumblr and my favorite thing to write were smaus because that what was cool back in my day 👴 i'm rlly hoping these types of stories are still relevant because i love reading and writing them. they're so quick and easy yet so funny and lighthearted. anywayyy i'm hoping that you guys will enjoy this as much as i did when i was a youngen

wc : n/a

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sorry for being so inactive pookies ☹️☹️