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oblivious

I gotta say I think it's kind of sad that steven universe was such an evocative and interesting show among it's contemporaries but was left with a very bad reputation based on what's honestly some of the worst analysis of anything i have ever seen

.... i have never felt so seen

THANKS FOR EVERYTHING DR STONE 🌙✨🚀🌏

facts with jvn 👏🏻

Just got into V’s route. My current experience and mood with it.

Will now retreat from tumblr so i don’t get any spoilers tho. T_T

My kokoro is brokoro.

It is okay and normal to be mad at people you love sometimes. It's normal for them to be mad at you sometimes. What I think really matters, is how people treat each other when they're mad.

My partner was mad at me yesterday. I was supposed to book his ferry last week but I forgot and when I went to yesterday, the reservations were sold out. (He has really busy work days and that's why I was booking it - before anyone says he could have just booked it himself. I have a lot more spare time than he does and had agreed to do it when he asked.)

He was genuinely mad at me. He expressed feeling frustrated, but he never once yelled at me. He never once insulted me. He never once threw a past mistake in my face because he was upset.

He told me that he still loved me when he was mad at me, but he took some time to calm down. And then he came back and told me that he loved me again. I gave him a sincere apology. And we came up with an alternate solution, and we moved on.

I made plans for how I can not get so distracted in the future - because I did mess up, and part of apologizing in my opinion is aiming to do better next time.

But the point is that while he was mad at me, he never treated me poorly. He was never cruel or mean. He understood mistakes happened, but he still needed a minute to sort through his feelings. And that was okay. He was allowed that. I was genuinely upset, and I felt terrible. But he was allowed the space to be mad, and I was comforted by knowing he still loved me even if I had messed up. I used my own coping methods to deal with my feelings.

It's okay to be mad, even angry. It's okay to need space. It's just important to be mindful of how we handle our feelings, and we need to know that we don't deserve someone to be mean to us, even if they're angry.

Work-in-Progress for the cutout animation I‘m making this semester! It’s inspired by Jonathan Stroud‘s Bartimaeus sequence. ✨