Як іскра ще в тобі горить І згаснути не вспіла, — Гори!

Rusalka and He Who Rends the Dikes by Sofia Karaffa-Korbut, illustrations to "The Forest Song" by Lesya Ukrainka.

The city of Vovchansk, Ukraine after the russian invasion.

First day of the year in Kyiv after russian attack 💔

Ukrainians wait for the Declaration of Independence to be pronounced near the Supreme Council building in Kyiv on the 24th of August, 1991

24.02.2022

Mariupol

Dismantling the Lies of Abusive Parents Masterlist

Resources

Giving you food and clothing is the bare minimum

You don’t owe gratitude for food and clothes you needed as a child

You had the right for basic resources

Parents shaming you for costing money is ironic and stupid

What it means when they say ‘This is MY house’

My house = my rules is blackmail

Children don’t owe absolute obedience for being fed and sheltered

Physical abuse

You are allowed to refuse any touch, not only violence

If they ‘don’t know they’re hurting you’, why do they ignore or punish you when you protest?

Hitting children is irrational and doesn’t work

You cannot ‘provoke’ your parents to abuse you if they’re not abusive

Why do parents hit, manipulate and traumatize children

Blatant Lies

Care, nurture and affection do not make you weak

They’re lying when they say it ‘wasn’t that bad’‘

You wouldn’t have grown up spoiled if not for abuse

You got too affected by it’ is a lie

Your parents are not ‘just too emotionally immature’ to understand abuse

‘You’re not living in the real world!’ is nonsense

You’re not worthless, a burden, ungrateful, or stupid, and your parents know that.

Constant undermining of your accomplishments is abuse

Not being allowed to talk about the past is symptom of abuse

Parents who want you to be happy vs look happy

You are not abusive for resisting abuse

When they claim ‘they didn’t mean it’, it’s still abuse

Your parents are responsible for their own actions regardless of how badly they try to shift blame on you

Psychological abuse

Blind Obedience is not required in a healthy upbringing

Disgust is a weapon abusive parents use on their kids

If they say they love you, but walk all over your feelings, they don’t 

Parents don’t have the right to enter your room to scream at you

Parents insisting for you to be ‘tough’ are doing it to hide the trauma

Even if a kid acts like ‘they can take it’, it’s still abuse

Pretending abuse is discipline will leave children permanently scarred

It’s inhumane to control and shame children’s reactions to abuse

Why don’t you already know this? vs Teaching you necessary skills

Acting like they’ll change is escape sabotage

Parents are responsible for protecting children from harm

References to how healthy parenting looks like

Not being allowed to be angry with your parents is psychological abuse

If parents want you to act the way you did when you were little, they’re dangerous

Threats about how hard your life will be later on, are bad for you

Lack of continuity and ever-changing rules will cause anxiety

Forced obedience will lead you to abusive relationships

Parents acting like you’re a ‘bad child’ is a shame tactic to control you

There’s healthy and abusive ways to give children chores

Revisioning the past and insisting you remember it wrong is gaslighting

If your parents make you suicidal, they’re abusive

Parents threatening ‘they could be worse’ is abuse

Always assuming the worst intentions for your actions is wrong

Keeping children hostage in abuse is torture

If this hits home, also read Recognizing Abuse Masterlist

"Imagination" monthly calendars for 1992 by Lyubov Panchenko.

Every month is mentioned in the images descriptions.

In September, not a single day passed without Russia's drone attack on Ukraine. According to the Air Force of the Armed Forces of Ukraine, the terrorist state launched 1,339 Shahed drones last month. Of those, 1,107 were successfully shot down, while some others were neutralised by electronic warfare. The rest hit Ukrainian cities and settlements, killing, injuring, and destroying. On average, Russia launched 44 drones each day, with the largest assault on 14 September, when 76 UAVs targeted more than 10 regions across Ukraine. It is crucial for the international community to stand with Ukraine, support its fight for freedom, and work together to bring an end to this war. Holding those responsible for these attacks accountable is essential to achieving just and lasting peace for Ukraine and the world. —Ukraine.ua

When dysphoria hits hurt

Hey

long shot, but if you were thinking about checking out that new Atomic Heart game:

please don't, it's a Russian developer, and the thousands of dollars worth of taxes will go to producing more rockets to kill me thx a bunch