Miguel O’Hara Headcanons: dating a gn!autistic!reader
➼ As with my Hobie post, these headcanons are based off some struggles I deal with myself as an autistic person, what my friends with autism face, and what i have seen and researched online. Autism is a spectrum and remember that everyone has different needs and levels of support, I just tried to include what i know in this post!
➼ No beta we die like uncle Aaron
➼ No warnings! Contains fluff
GIF doesn't belong to me! All credits to the original owner
Has set aside a room in Spider HQ that only the two of you have access to. It has a sensory swing, blackout curtains, a huge tv for your comfort shows, and a whole area just full of blankets, pillows, and stuffed animals (if you like them that is)
Much like Hobie, will throw anyone out of the room for you. And throw anything at anyone too.
"Hey mi amor, cover your ears for just a second" Miguel spoke quietly to you. Once he saw that your ears were covered, he gave a sarcastic smile to the offending spider person before tearing out a nearby console and hurling it at them
Even though he’s not at home often, his room is fitted with another sensory swing for you, so you can go there to decompress as well
He has Lyla track your heart rate closely to try and predict meltdowns so he can get you away from busy places and into a safe zone that doesn't have any triggers for you
If you’re non-verbal, low-verbal, or selectively mute, he has your watch fitted with a keyboard with text-to-speech so it’s easier for you to communicate
Everywhere already has soft lighting since Miguel’s eyes are sensitive to light as well. No dreaded overhead lights here. Rule number one: never use the big light
He personally makes sure that your safe foods are available in the cafeteria at HQ, even if it doesn’t fit the theme of the menu
All around HQ there’s a secret stash of fidget toys in every room
If there’s a spider person making fun of you for being autistic? Well they’re never heard from again or seen around the office. That and now every spider person is getting educated about autism, ADHD, so on and so forth as part of their training. They refuse? Out of the society. Miguel doesn’t stand for ableism here
Though let’s be honest he probably already has those like training modules that work gives you on different disabilities, transphobia, homophobia, racism, etc, and how to be respectful, just because there are so many spider people of different backgrounds and he won’t stand for intolerance
He carries around earplugs for you in case he needs to scream at a 15-year-old
Always asks if it’s okay if he can kiss you/hug you/hold your hand just in case you’re in a ‘no touch’ mood
Buys you trinkets from your special interests in each universe he visits (like shark plushies, maybe something from a tv series, cd from a band, etc)
Some writers: *meticulously plan out every plot point and the tone and meanings before they start writing*
Me:
long story short I moved my ass over to freezerville (I’m from Florida so any place with snow is- DESR god-) so I was gone for forever
But I’m baaack and gonna try to write again!
Will the next part of the Stillwater Reader and Vi have fluff? Here's to hoping Vi keeps true to her word and comes back for the Reader and they can have their life together. I really hope this doesn't turn into an lovers to enemies story. Vi and the Reader deserve to be happy together. Also Caitlyn threatening Vi the way she did, really made me not like her in this story, and hopefully she can redeem herself by doing what Vi said about letting the Reader out after Vi helping her.
Find out either later on tonight or tomorrow 👀
GUESS WHO’S BACK FROM THE DEAD??
Hey guys! I took a while off (unannounced) because of some medical issues and due to my college classes ramping up. I was totally offline for these months and coming back to see people still liking my arcane series is just 🥹 it’s enough to make a grown man cry. But I’m back! I’m back and watching season 2, so I’m hoping to get back to writing again! Feel free to send in any requests you may have and I hope everyone is enjoying season 2!
OKAY I’m finally home from my little get away! Here’s some fics that are gonna come out in the next few days to get y’all excited:
“Miguel O’Hara headcanons: dating a gn!autistic! reader”
My first request!! Adding onto “Hobie Brown headcanons: dating a gn!autistic!reader” as well as a little Drabble
Then I’ll be taking a little break from the gn!autistic!reader series and be throwing some full fics out!
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I just woke and OMG @hobie-enthusiast IS NOW A MUTUAL IM FREAKING OUT IM SO HAPPY
Also side note! Probably won’t get any new works out soon since I’m going out of town for a few days^^
So yes the Valentine's headcanons were late, BUT I got it posted in February so it's still relevant (I hope)
Okay so I’m writing the first chapter of the JayVik AU, I should warn y’all it’s gonna be LONG chapters and SEVERAL chapters. Might need to start writing on AO3 too. The only part I’m stuck on is the name and this one conversation I’m having between characters.
I also finally finished arcane. I watched part 3. I am NOT OKAY OH MY FUCKING GOD
ARCANE WRITERS WHEN I CATCH YOU
WHEN I CATCH YOU ARCANE WRITERS
➼ When writing character x reader, I will only write male, gender neutral, or FTM readers. Nothing against character x fem!reader fics! I just personally don’t think I write female reader fics well. That and there always seems to be a lack of male reader fics, and I’m here to fix that
➼ I will write sfw, nsfw, fluff, and angst. All of my fics will have warnings if there is any nsfw content or anything potentially triggering
➼ Things that I will not write: nsfw for any characters under 18, in depth descriptions of self harm, suicide, or eating disorders. Some of these hit too close to home and I also don’t want to accidentally write anything offensive or wrong about these topics as I don’t know every single thing about them.
➼ I will write both character x character fics and character x reader, though I do not write for other people’s ocs. I feel like I can’t write another person’s original character as well as that person could!
This list is always updating tbh-
➼ Supernatural ➼ Marvel ➼ Hannibal ➼ Merlin ➼ MHA ➼ Black Butler ➼ Harry Potter/Marauders (fuck JKR, these aren’t her characters anymore) ➼ Good Omens ➼ Star Wars ➼ cough Voltron don’t mention it cough
Requests
➼ Requests are currently open! I will get to them as fast as I can, though I am in college and have a job, so I can’t guarantee to always get them out super fast. All I ask for is patience please!