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How to have your ultimate self care night!

After a long harsh day, where maybe you felt a range of emotions- and maybe some of them were negative, the best thing you can do is return to yourself. Take comfort in yourself, soothe yourself, show up for yourself. Be your own best friend.

First of all, a self care night means actually giving yourself love. Actually taking the time to do what makes you happy and loved and appreciated. People often think that to feel loved and appreciated you need other people to make you feel that way??? That’s so wrong! Why would you put how you feel and your emotions in the hands of others when you could so easily give it to yourself?

So get the space all cozy and comfy with blankets and pillows because this night is the YOU night!

So the number one step to making you feel loved on your self care night is to learn your love languages and try to add in something for each love language. The 5 main love languages:

Physical touch

Words of affirmation

Acts of service

Quality time

Gift giving

Here’s a list of things you can do to give yourself love in each way:

Movies/shows you can watch:

Wizards of Oz

Gilmore girls

Bridgerton

Legally blonde

Mamma Mia

Any old Disney movies <3

Barbie!

Food & drinks:

Freshly baked cookies

Mini cake

Hot chocolate

Tea & biscuit

Ice cream

Self loving activities you can so by yourself!

Make sure to look at the list above for the love languages and do one from your top love language! Here are some more ideas to spend time with yourself and have a great time.

Journal

Paint rocks / canvas/ water color

Draw/ sketch your dream dresses

Read

Everything shower

Face mask!

Yoga

Paint your nails

Write a love letter to yourself

Braid your hair

Watch the sunset

DANCE! Some songs that are so danceable that you WILL get up and dance: 22, like a girl (old song😭😂) freak the freak out, dance the night (Barbie ofc)

Hope this helped you with your epic self care night and to also realise that you don’t need others to have an amazing time!

self concept affirmations so i don’t go insane trying to manifest this thing

- i am pure consciousness, not bound to any reality

- creation is finished

- my manifestations are always fast and inevitable

- everything always works out for me

- i always get everything i want

how to become the smartest woman in the room 💭

topics to study:

philosophy

languages

art history

literature

fine foods

classical music

history

architecture

psychology

political science

here is some things you can manifest to make your life even enjoyable ,fun and simple.

to look like a celebrity ( this is so much fun just choose someone you want to look like and imagine everyone telling you that you look just like xy. )

new connections

to get free things ( coffie etc...) whenever you go out in public

not having to work or do a thing you love and get a ton of money for it

gain fame by social media

always travel to somewhere

having your fav coffie shop/store , anything near your work place or home

not having to study in college/school but get good grades anyway

not having to work out or eat healthy but still have your desired body

never having an insecurity again

having your dream wardrobe and always get compliments on your outfits

Do you even realise how lucky you are? 🌟

Do you realise how fucking lucky you are to know the literal cheat code to life??!

Anything and everything you want is accessible to you and you can have it so effortlessly. Just a matter of choosing to change your thoughts.

Wake up every single day with a feeling of pure happiness because dudeeeeee like you have everything you want in your lifeeee, Could life get any better??

You look exactly how you wanna look like, you body is healthy and you're glowing. You have the best wardrobe and more than enough money in your bank account to splurge on more if need be. You have the best family and the best of friends you could ever ask for! You are in the most amazing relationship of your life with the best person you could ever ask for. They are so head over heels in love with you!

Body is bodying, Skin is glowing, Hair is hairing, Outfit on point, Style is chic, Aura is 1000000000000000000000000000x.

You are so popular, you really are a trendsetter. Can you even put a number to the eyes that admire you wherever you go??

How can someone be this beautiful and this smart? You really do have it all don't you? What others would do just to be you.

This is it, This is your life. And even if the 3d ain't showing you this right now. Refuse to see it and be delusional for all I care. This is it for me so make it be for you too!

The moment you decide that something is yours, your subconscious begins aligning to make it happen. Your power is in the present moment, and every time you affirm, visualize, or feel your desired reality, you’re shifting your inner world.

Even if the outside world doesn’t show immediate results, it doesn’t mean the process isn’t happening. The shift starts internally, and soon it has no choice but to reflect externally. You’re already in control, and as you focus on that reality, it gets stronger. Keep reinforcing that belief—you’re not waiting for change, you are the change.

Your subconscious is working for you right now, and it’s all unfolding exactly as you desire. Trust that, live in it, and own it.

A soft life requires HARD WORK!!!!

You should pamper and take care of yourselves. HOWEVER, You need more than a pretty face these days y'all to get ahead in life. You see women who are in business, law, and Healthcare. They had to bust their behinds to get where they are now. Endless nights staying up to studying, not worried about men 24/7, dreaming about what will be on the other side to motivate themselves. Some of y'all want to be babied. Yes, not every woman thinks the same and wants to be a rich housewife. How do you think women become rich housewives? Networking, Education, volunteering, Hobbies, etc.

Some of these girlies on tumblr are selling a fantasy and I'll let them have it but this is not a Wattpad fanfiction. WAKE UP and get up and do something!!!

I love spending time by myself. I love eating healthier foods that make me feel really good. I love dressing fits that make me feel confident. I love hangout with my friends and family. I love taking care of my mind and spirit.