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I have no followers atm and am barely active, but I am coming here to say that this blog supports Heechul & Momo. In this house, we stan and support idols being in love and being able to date safely and happily without kpop fandom trying to tear people down.

Heechul is not a creep, not predatory, and the age gap is not anything to be upset about. There are so many couples that have bigger age gaps and people don’t care, but oh no not Heechul and Momo! 

If you paid any kind of attention to him, watched any interviews, or any of the like, you’d be aware of that. And even if somehow it’s all a facade and he’s not the lovable idiot many of us have come to see him as, then if nothing else, you should be trusting Momo to make an educated decision about who she wants to date. She’s an adult. And she has been since her debut.

Let’s support these guys instead of being assholes to each other and making mean, crass comments on social media. So many of ya’ll preach about letting idols date until it’s a couple you don’t like, then it’s suddenly a problem.

In this house, we support Heechul and Momo!

Just looking at you smiling, just watching over you makes me feel at peace

To whoever, and I mean WHOEVER comes across this I'm begging you to share it.

If you're on Twitter please report this account. This is literally the worst thing I've ever seen show up from an incident like this. A beautiful life was lost and people are being rude a disrespectful towards the artists themselves, the people who loved these said artists as well as the fandom they claim to be apart of but are clearly doing it to start fan wars.

Of all the horrible things I've seen in response to this heartbreaking event, this by far has to be one of the worst. I'm out of words and have no way to express how I feel about this because I'm filled with a million different emotions.

I'm sorry to all f(x) fans for your loss and although I'm not apart of your fanbase, I know that she was an amazing person who gave more love than she received. I'm also sorry that people create and share these kinds of things while dragging other fandoms into the dirt. You do not deserve this disgusting response.

It brought me so much sadness seeing all the negative replies about this and how others are using it as a "promotional period" for their own artists (yes I've seen people actually do this)

I don't know if reporting them will work but if done multiple times their acc will be checked out and hopefully banned.

My deepest condolences to all those who loved her, fan or family.

This also serves as a crucial reminder that your words, written or said do have impact. No matter how small your account or how large the platform, thinking "They won't see it" will not prevent them from seeing it.

Please always be kind. Be mindful of your words towards others and always check up on those you love. One second of your input could change a lot.

All fan wars should be put aside and forgotten because this is more important then that. These issues are more important then who got what awards or who topped which chart.

A fandom lost an angel today. A group lost a sister. So please out your hate aside and spread the love everyone needs.

Like my previous post, I apologize in advance for the unrelated tags.

Ok, I barely dip into the Twice and Suju fandoms

But oh. My. Word.

You are all accusing Heechul of being a predator??? For dating another consenting adult???

YOU. DON'T. KNOW. THESE. IDOLS. PERSONALLY.

By calling Heechul whatever disgusting names the internet loves to use, you are questioning Momo. You all claim to love Momo and want to protect her when you automatically assume that she can't possibly be dating Heechul because, I don't know, HE'S A GOOD GUY who is famous for how respectful he is to women?! And you automatically assume a bunch of sexual stuff and not that he's dating her because he LIKES HER? You are questioning Momo's ability to think for herself and be a grown working woman making adult choices.

I have seen countless young girls go full on crazy over male idols. I've heard 14-year-old girls say sexual things about idols who are almost 30. Several of the people crying over Heechul and Momo have said these things themselves. Also apparently Heechul admired her "when she was a teenager" - you're leaving out the fact that she was 19 - AN ADULT.

And to all the people sobbing about how they're both actually gay and it's a coverup, you disgust me. You actually disgust me. These idols sexualities are none of your business. Oh, and throwing shade to someone because they're not the sexuality you wanted them to be? That's not only a million times creepier than anything you claim Heechul has done, but is hateful and contradicts everything you supposedly stand for - which is supporting people no matter their sexuality.

Momo and Heechul are both adults with their own private lives who don't owe these bratty, selfish, so-called "fans" anything. I've seen people giving Heechul DEATH THREATS. Which is in fact illegal (their relationship is not).

In short - Heechul and Momo deserve all the love and happiness in the world. You're allowed to be uncomfortable as I know many people have had bad age gap experiences but please PLEASE for once just realize that not everyone has the same experiences as you.

And to everyone accusing Heechul of horrible things and to everyone who's so concerned for Momo's safety - I sincerely hope you can get a life and stop infantilizing women as well as stop assuming the worst about a man simply because he is a man. Oh wait - this is your life. I don't hate any of you - I'm sorry for you. You must feel so bad about yourself that you feel the need to try to ruin innocent people's lives that you have no involvement in because for some reason you've decided it's bad.

Stop treating idols like they're fictional characters who must adhere to your headcanons and ships. Stop infantilizing grown adult women making their own life choices. Stop threatening men on completely baseless accusations. This is the most disgusting thing I've seen in a long time. I sincerely hope you all learn from this and stop acting like the terrifying cross between Puritans and Radfems that the internet seems to breed so prolifically.

1,095 Days.

Its been one-thousand and ninety-five days since you’ve gone away. Those three years have been long. So, so long.

We haven’t forgotten you. We never will. Your music plays through the speakers of our cars, your smile is thought of, your humbleness is cherished, your imprint on our lives is well known. You are remembered Jonghyun, not just by your music alone — but by the four men who persevere in your memory. You are still loved, thought of, embraced, and missed. You are that beacon of light, of hope, of love.

Your battle was hard, and you did all you could do, but sometimes, that weight gets too heavy even for the strongest of people. There is nothing wrong in accepting that. You’re simply one person, and it’s not your fault.

The day you left us, the moon flickered out for just the briefest of moments. Was it welcoming you into its embrace? You are the moon. You are the stars. You are everywhere. You are a gift in words, in lyrics, and I just want you to know that we’ve heard them. Read them. We do it so we can sing them back at you. Write us something new if you get the chance, and we’ll listen to it in the wind. We’ll listen, because we weren’t listening hard enough before.

We love you. We miss you. 수고했어요.