Divine Love (love Of Self)

Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you. They don't give you the silent treatment. They don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond—they patiently hold a safe space for you.

EVERYTHING COMES TO YOU, AT THE RIGHT TIME

You are being brainwashed

The fact that many people get triggered by the simple idea of putting in effort says a lot about how social media has conditioned us to expect instant results without real work.

Think about it when pagan witches perform spells, they leave offerings to their deities. When Christians, Hindus, Muslims, and Sikhs pray, they offer gratitude, food, money, or time. These offerings aren’t just rituals; they are acts of appreciation, an exchange of energy.

Even if the Universe or a higher power doesn’t need offerings, the act of giving is a way to align with the energy of receiving.

Yet, in modern manifestation culture, people have been misled into believing they can ask and receive without giving anything in return no self-work, no shadow work, no deep reflection. This is where the brainwashing happens.

Even if you manage to manifest what you want without deep self-reflection, it won’t last long. Why? Because you haven’t built the foundation to sustain it.

The true offering in manifestation isn’t candles, crystals, or rituals it’s your self-work. Your willingness to reflect, heal, and grow is what aligns you with lasting abundance. The Universe isn’t transactional, but it does respond to effort, awareness, and alignment.

Hello, what placements/ aspects indicate someone being well liked/ popular?

popularity indicators in astrology

7th house placements - this suggests these people put a lot of energy into their relationships with others and therefore can be more popular and well liked. they care about harmony in their relationships. can be people pleasers.

10th house placements - these people care about their image and how they present themselves to the public and in professional settings. they can also seem to demand respect simply through how they hold themselves and behave which can help them gain popularity and even admiration.

11th house placements - these people place importance on connecting with others and socialising which can make them more well liked and popular.

gemini placements - these people can be social butterflies, and they are chatterboxes which can make them well liked and popular.

libra placements - similar to 7th house placements, these people can be people pleasers due to their desire for balance and harmony. they are typically received well because they are sociable which can make them popular and well liked. charming.

leo placements - this suggests these people have a desire to be in the spotlight and most of the time they have the confidence to back this up. other people can gravitate towards their confident and playful nature resulting in being popular and well liked.

positive jupiter aspects - this suggests these people have a good sense of humour, which can charm others and make these people well liked and popular.

prominent/strong mars + aries placements - these people don't usually have issues inserting themselves into conversations and situations which can make them more popular and well-liked simply because they don't hold themselves back socially and just go for it - creating more opportunities for themselves. however, they may come across as too abrupt and harsh/detached which can put some people off.

sun positively aspecting the ascendant (including conjunct) - these people can come across as confident within themselves and can be 'seen' by others more (better visibility due to the way they carry themselves), which can make them well liked and popular.

mercury dominance - these people can be great conversationalists and love to talk which can make them well liked and popular.

moon/cancer placements and prominence - these people can make others feel safe, comfortable and cared for (which is what can make them well liked) and, once you get to know them, can be the biggest chatterboxes. however, they may have a tendency to be shy at first, especially in unfamiliar environments and situations where they feel uncomfortable.

a well placed and aspected venus - these people can come across in a sweet, and harmonious pleasing sort of manner which can make them well liked and popular.

!!note!!: the list above is just what comes to mind for me off the top of my head but I would really just like to take a second to say that being well liked & popular can come down to many many different combinations in somebody's chart and everybody has their own people. :)

more so, everything above can be mixed and matched. for instance, a libra ascendant with jupiter in the 11th house with venus in the 7th house has a higher likelihood of being more well liked/popular.

thank you for reading, and thank you for asking questions! ♡ ~ 𝓪𝓼𝓽𝓻𝓸𝓶𝓪𝓷𝓲𝓪𝓬

Normalize not forcing people to choose you. If they think they can find better elsewhere – let them. Respectfully.

Normalize not forcing connections. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don't try to convince them.

rupi kaur

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