#Tulpa Life

"Someone who I am not"

A personal artwork that I made a bit ago. I'm still proud of it.

It is about the feelings of fear and anger that come from being trans in an unsafe place... In your mind, you are different. Your soul is something vivid and itching to burn through the physical shell that contains it.

I am Imtithal from northern Gaza. I live in very difficult conditions because of the war and I struggle to provide basic necessities. I was displaced with my children 17 times in search of a safe place. There is no safe place. We suffer from a shortage of water, food, medicine and milk. Because of the famine war that we have been going through for 10 months, I need your support so that we can survive. Even if the support is simple, it helps my family a lot. Please donate and participate.

their gofundme is linked in their bio

I can’t donate myself on account of I am poor and broke but if you can please help

Here’s some positivity for parogenic/paromancy systems!

On this blog we love, respect, and cherish parogenic systems! To those who are shifting away from tulpa language, have always identified with parogenic/paromancy, or are just now finding the right label for themselves and their system, this one’s for you!

Here’s to the paromancers!

To those who have spent hours researching, meditating, building a wonderland, focusing on their thoughtforms and paros, and manifesting their existences! To those who didn’t have to try at all, whose parogenic headmates walked into their life and settled in for good! To those who are honing their paromancy craft, who create guides, art, and other paro-focused content on their own or with the help of their thoughtforms! Paromancers, we see you, we love you, and we are honored to share the plural community with you!

Here’s to the paros, thoughtforms, and parogens!

To those who became sentient almost immediately! To those whose existence feels faint, who have to focus hard to hold on to their form, or who struggle to remain in reality! To those who love to collaborate with their hosts in building a wonderland and forging their own identities! To those who think for themselves, who are feisty, brave, reserved, cheerful, or anxious! Paros, thoughtforms, know that you are real! You belong in this world, you deserve to express yourself and take up space, and we’re rooting for you in all that you do!

Here’s to the paromancy systems!

To those who work together to better understand each other! To those who feel lost and confused, but feel better when they’re together! To those who bond together and build positive, long lasting relationships! To those who may not fully understand how their system works, but who wouldn’t change it for the world! To those who dare to be themselves, or spread awareness about paromancy and plurality! To those who support and uplift their system members, and their fellow systems in the plural community! Your system is beautiful! Your plurality is complex, unique, and worth celebrating!

We hope all parogenic systems and headmates can find peace, joy, and comfort in each other and themselves, today and every day! Know that the plural community would not be the same without you. We love you and we so appreciate your presence here! Please keep your chin up, look after each other, and remember that you are wanted, loved, and cherished just the way you are. Thanks a bunch for reading, and have a great day!

BIG BIG TW!!!!!

Important information for RQs

[PT: Important information for RQs.]

**TRIGGER WARNING for talk about nsfw activies with (young children.**

For this post, I will be referring to chrono children simply as children for the sake of simplicity. This does not (always) apply to transage children.

There is a server that I've seen being advertised a couple of times as a radqueer, pro-c server.

This server is called rad.haven, and is run by a user known as hibiscux (also on tumblr, they have the same pfp as their discord pfp).

Here is a series of screenshots of hibiscux and other members of the server, arguing with a member (who, IMO, has common sense. I blocked out their user as I don't believe they deserve to be brought into anything related to this).

As you can see from these screenshots, hibiscux and the other members of this server believe several things

That young children (as young as six, and possibly younger) can consent, and

That sexual acts with children do not harm the child, or

2a. That children understand the risks and possible harms that can be caused by sexual acts with adults, and can consent to those.

None of these things are true. MANY sources can tell you that sexual acts performed with children are harmful and cause mental and physical pain. This server saying that these things are ok, and that VIDEOING and POSTING these acts online is also ok, is absolutely fucking disgusting. This makes me feel sick to my stomach. This is horrendous.

If you are in this server, or support hibiscux in any way, don't ever fucking interact with me (unless it's to tell me to block you).

This is important. If you are in agreement with what I am saying here, please reblog this post to let others in the community know about this person, either so they block them or block me.

Hey! Do you use terms for your system besides "headmate", "alter", or "facet"? This post is for you!

Shoutout to:

Systems that use the term "system member" or "sysmate"!

Those who choose "part", "piece", or "aspect"!

The ones out there who use "pluralian", "pluralment", and "pluret" are so cool!

"Ceter" is unique and lovely!

"Walk-ins" and "spirits" deserve just as much space as anyone else!

Even the ones who see their members as "personalities" are welcome here!

And anyone else who uses a non-typical system term!

We love all of you so, so much! We wish you& the best of days, no matter what you choose to call yourselves!

🖤💜💙💚💛

if you make a special box in your head called "thoughts that aren't mine" and put every thought that doesn't feel like your own into that box. let's just say. something magical happens

names: Alice / Arya / Heaven/ Isa / Iris

Nicknames: Angel, holly girl, sea baby

honorifics: Sister, sissy, lady

pronouns: she/her ae/aer angel/angelself an/gel

orientation: Aegoromantic, Asexual

other identity: angelkin

species: human/angel/angelkin

age: 18

personality: dreamy, spacey, kind, bubbly, sweet, and kind.

likes: taking care of new headmates, being positive, meditating, and daydreaming

role: Adopter, Aegir, beauheur, buffer, coltenoir, comforter, daydream holder

LGBTQIA+ Wiki

Aegoromantic

In-system relationships can be so intimate.

Waking up together, opening the same eyes, and stretching the same limbs. Yawning in time and saying a good morning that only you who are involved can understand what it's for.

Sharing a meal, not only from the same plate, but with the same hands and the same senses. Deciding what to eat together, something that fits all of your tastes.

Curled in the same bed, in the same blankets, in the same body, drowzily mumbling about nothing and everything to each other. Joking around and feeling their sleepy laugh as if it were your own.

Living life, and inviting them to share yours and your time in it--performing your daily tasks in the unison of cofront. Seeing and hearing and feeling everything together.

Feeling them blush when you flirt or compliment them. Feeling their joy when you get them a gift, or how safe you make them feel simply when you're around them.

Enveloped in the same love, from the same brain, with the same feeling of care for each other palpable between you. Feeling the emotions you feel yourself, coming from the other person. Feeling their love for you, in the rawest, most direct possible way.

Since Plural Pride Day and Moon Landing Day fall on the same date, I have decided that the Moon is plural. Yep, that's right. The Moon is a median system and each of her phases is a different headmate. Aren't we all so lucky to have a celebrity so open and proud to be herself and show off all her headmates' individual styles? We should appreciate her more

Here’s my metaphor for systemhood that I tell my singlet friends.

Imagine you’re playing a first person video game. You have the controller, you control your character. It’s a normal first person game. You are an alter, the character is the body. This is fronting.

Other people live with you. Sometimes, they come into the room and sit and watch while you play. They sometimes try to guide you, give you advice on what to do next. They don’t always agree, and they can argue with each other. Other times they scream at you that you’re doing everything wrong and you suck at this game. This is co-consciousness.

Imagine how distracting it would be for people around you to tell you what to do, or to scream at each other or at you, even if they have good intentions. It wouldn’t be easy to focus on your game, would it?

Then sometimes, something happens in the game that prompts you to hand off the controller to someone else so they can play and you get a break. This is (some types of) switching. This can be good.

Other times, someone rips the controller out of your hand or fights you for it. This is (other types of) switching. And sometimes, six other players hook up their controllers, but there’s only one character to play as. So all of you have your controllers, but you’re all trying to play the same character. This is cofronting.

Imagine how difficult that would be. Imagine how hard it would be to try and play a game while someone is trying to take the controller from you, or while six other people are trying to play too.

There are also times that nobody is playing, or you can’t decide who should play. What’s happening to the character in the game? What are they doing if no one is playing? This is dissociation. The character is doing nothing. They’re stuck.

This is the best metaphor I have come up with for being a system. It’s something a lot of people get because they’ve played games before.