I Fucking HATE The Term "narcissistic Abuse."

On today's episode of "What is wrong with my mind and why am I like this?", I'm wondering why the hell I crave attention and affection from people I hate, let alone people I have a kind of parasocial hatred towards.

plzzz I need moots n friends man

Im not asking for advice btw(u can say what you want tho) just sort of cataloging this here since idk where else to put it 😭😭 xiensidn Eho am iiiiiiiiiiiii (also I think I'm maybe ambimorous[idk what it's called, that thing where you're fine w poly or mono relationships]??)

The only part of being ill that is wonderful is that my voice is deeper. I sound like a guy when I cough I adore it <33

What the fuck

Guess what movie I'm finally watching 😈

i just got out my copy of Bram Stoker's Dracula to start reading it(a rlly cool vampire otherkin account i started following reminded me of it) since i've been procrastinating about it for like year, BUT I DROPPED MY STUPID CUPCAKE ON IT. The gods seem slightly upset w my decision to read it 😞 /lh

♡ types of empathy + examples . . .

cognitive empathy . . .

ー cognitive empathy is understanding someone's thoughts and/or feelings. this is when you intellectually understand what someone else is feeling, without necessarily feeling it yourself.

ー example: imagine your co-worker is nervous before giving a big presentation. you don't necessarily feel nervous yourself, but you understand why they feel that way, so you offer them encouragement.

ー how it feels: you recognize the emotion/feeling logically. "ah, they are anxious because of the pressure" ー but you are emotionally neutral or calm about it.

emotional (or affective) empathy . . .

ー emotional empathy is feeling with someone. this is when you actually feel the other person's emotions, as if you were experiencing it yourself.

ー example: your friend bursts into tears after a breakup. as you comfort them, you suddenly feel heavy, heartbroken, and your own tears start to well up, even though it's not your breakup.

ー how it feels: your emotional state mirrors theirs. it might feel automatic and intense, almost as if you are "catching" their emotion.

compassionate empathy . . .

ー compassionate empathy is feeling and acting to help. this type of empathy combines understanding & emotional feeling, with the desire to help and take action.

ー example: you see someone on the street shivering without a coat in the winter. you feel bad for them (emotional empathy) and feel motivated to give them your scarf/buy them something warm (action).

ー how it feels: there is a strong pull in your chest, an urge to do something to ease another person's suffering or problems.

I am not elaborating(much)

Happy lesbian visibility week!

I like women, but

I'm a trans dude, but I'm not a dude, but I'm not *not* a dude, but I am FIN, but agender and nonbinary do kinda fit too, but nonhuman xenogenders r cool, but-

Little BSD theory thing

This isn't intended to be taken seriously; do as you want with it. This is like a week or two old??

(Little corner image is a Whisper from Won's Pinterest, idk how to @ ppl on here)