- Communication doesn’t work on bullies. Telling a bully they’re making you feel bad is the wrong way to go. They want to make you feel bad. That’s the point.
- being kind to a bully doesn’t always mean they’ll stop. Sometimes it means they’ll just use your kindness to manipulate you while still continuing to bully you.
- not every bully has a sympathetically tragic home life. Sometimes people are just mean. Sometimes people just get off on hurting others.
- on that note, a tough home life is a reason, not an excuse. You don’t have to put up with bullying because somebody’s life sucks, just like you don’t have to let someone mug you because they’re broke.
- in order to forgive someone, they have to apologize first. If your bully has not apologized to you, you do not owe them anything.
- getting bullied as a kid can still mess you up in adult life. Maybe kids grow out of being bullies, but the marks they left often don’t go away.
- there are ways to get people to stop bullying you, but they almost all involve being mean back.
- as long as parents keep raising shitty bullying kids, there will be bullies. No amount of assemblies and hand-drawn posters will fix the problem. It’s the parents’ fault.
jatp cast + saying no ❤️ to heteronormativity and toxic masculinity
@chakiraclark on TikTok.
This needs to be a disclaimer for all fangirls.
tell me why he has the audacity to be this hot?
edited by me. i own nothing, but the creativity.
Marvel Studios 10 years
Marvel Studios kicks off its yearlong 10th anniversary celebration with a behind-the-scenes look at the class photo featuring 79 actors and filmmakers from across the Marvel Cinematic Universe!
I’m sorry but did anyone else notice this little scene where DC comics put in a little easter egg abOUT DRACO MALFOY AND HIS FAMILY I AM IN A STATE OF INTERNAL SCREAMING BUT LIKE SERIOUSLY MY POOR BABY MALFOY HE JUST WANTED TO BE HIMSELF DC COMICS YOU SNEAKY BASTARDS I LOVE YOU thank you for warming my little fangirl heart
Would anyone care if I wrote for Benedict, he's literally the loml-
911: 911 what’s your emergency?
Me: I FANGIRLED TO HARD
911: Calm down, tell me in what fandom you are and we will help you
there are really hundreds of people out there writing 100k word stories about their favourite tv show characters out of pure love and passion and posting them on the internet for free so we can share that love and that frankly is what art is all about tbh
Content creator: writer, painter, digital artist, gif maker, anything you do yourself from scratch.
Seeking for validation proof because I was told by someone who's aiming to be a professional writer that hobbyist creators who do stuff for free to the internet are "just entertainers" and we should be happy and motivated with any attention we get, whether that's just likes or if we ever get reblogs or/and comments with it. I think that comments and feedback/sharing is much more important than just likes, but she didn't believe me and told me I'm being greedy and "whining for attention". So I'm aiming to prove that it's not just me who thinks like this. (Also because I've heard this argument from a lot of non-creators too)
Tagging some moots: @lotsoffandomimagines @supervalcsi @carolinesbookworld @imaginesbyella @imaginesbymk @cactiem @jammesbarnnes @emcon-imagines @bonniebird @randomfandomimagine @moonlit-imagines @murswrites@vostokovasmelina @lxncelot @writseo @fanficsfromyesteryear @fangirlings-things @musicallisto @thefandomimaginesandwritingblog @writerdream22 @myheartrevealed @maybanksslut @sheimagineddragons @sophies-crow-club @danaewrites @parkersbliss @magpiencrow @genyaakostyk
Tony covered in glitter: WHO MESSED WITH MY SUIT! LOKI! Y/N! I WILL KILL YOU!
Loki hiding behind the counter with Y/N: If he finds us...
Y/N fumbles with her backpack: Don't worry. I have a solution.
Loki: Oh thank Valhalla.
Y/N smiles devilishly pulling out a lighter and a deodorant: It involves fire.
Loki: Absolutely not. I'm rubbing off on you too much.