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Uh... are you okay shadow milk???

(He's miss wife/hj)

One thing I really hate as a darkshipper is people who fucking hide behind the proship label. Proship is not a pass to be a terrible person, it is centered around FICTIONAL and FANDON content. You literally CANNOT be proship if:

-You DO harass people over fiction / shipcourse (keep in mind criticism ≠ harassment)

-You are RADQUEER, proshippers do not condone "pro contact" shit and REAL WORLD HARM. Please stop associating with proship you are a walking contradiction.

-You are RIGHTWING, aka everything we go against

-You are a RADFEM, I've never seen someone who claims to be a radical feminist and a proshipper at the same time but radfems are very sex-negative and puritan. Go figure.

-You have EXCEPTIONS on what people can explore in fiction. Letting people ship what they want and create the fanworks that they want INCLUDES what you hate.

-You're AGAINST darkshippers that don't use it to cope.

Edit: Of course the terf found my post.

Edit2: Of course the TRANSID radqueer found my post

"ship wars are stupid why do you care what someone ships, just scroll if you don't like it

"omg ikr! as long as its not illegal-"

cw vent

I find it so so disrespectful how as soon as someone makes sexy fanarts of a fictional character who's a sa victim, antis come to harass them like "sexualizing sa victims is disgusting and wrong and we're right to harass you for it" and even go as far as to edit their art to completely cover the character in clothes until we can't see an inch of skin.

I'm not going to sugarcoat it: as a sex-positive rape survivor, go fuck yourself antis who insinuate that ALL victims must absolutely become sex-negative and aren't allowed to be sexy anymore to be a "valid victim"

"Valid victimhood" is the stupidest thing to come out of all this discourse. All victims are valid. It doesn't matter if they're sex negative or sex positive. It doesn't matter how they present themselves. It doesn't matter what they believe in. There's no such thing as an invalid victim.

I can NEVER take antis who use terms like "kiddie diddler" "pdf file" "drake's cousin" etc to sugarcoat the words "child abuser" seriously

imagine being so disconnected from reality you directly compare a sex trafficker to fan writers and artists, go rip off a toenail

It's important to recognize that proshippers can be predators. An adult sending art of an age gap ship to a minor in order to groom them into a relationship is not unheard of. It is a very real grooming tactic online. Of course, enjoying darkships doesn't instantly mean someone is a predator- but implying that darkship art can't ever be used as a grooming tactic isn't helpful. Predators are in every online space, and it's important to recognize and watch out for the signs. Proshippers are not predators, but some predators are proship.

PV really didn't need to have a whole toxic yaoi arc, tell Shadow Milk they were "meant to be", agree with Shmilk that he's his, and merge their God damn souls together but go off king. Love wins or smthn

right, but then try rewriting this with literally any other comparison between media and irl crime

villain fans when you say that liking fictional murder is just as bad as being a murderer in real life

like what do you find so attractive about fictional murder? if you wouldn't commit murder in real life and risk going to jail and everyone hating you then what makes it morally and socially acceptable to find fictional, murderous villains attractive?

they're literally the same as real murderers, the height, voices, looks/appearance, (kinda varies) the personality, and since y'all LOVE TO SAY THIS for some reason, cannibalism as a metaphor for love

this is exactly what i mean when i say all villain fans are or will become murderers one day whether they wanna admit it or not.

this is also the same logic that homophobes/transphobes use to censor lgbtq+ literature and media portrayals because reading and enjoying those things and seeing them normalized in the media will turn their kids gay and therefore rotten in their eyes.

shit, you play violent video games? you're gonna kill people someday! your favorite character is mean and has abused people? well i guess you're just gonna end up being like that person. it's not like you could ever know the difference between fiction and real life or have the self control and self awareness to separate the two, that's impossible. that doesn't exist actually, b-because... it just doesn't, okay!?

these people fail to understand that liking something in fiction does not immediately translate to you condoning it in real life or becoming that way. it is such a strange concept to them.

As a celebration of this being my most popular post, have a sequel to the world's worst double date.