Ayo My Ex Who Accused Me Of Cheating And Said I Was Ruining Their Mental Health Is Talking To Me Again

Why u callin me out like this, Tumblr-

my relationship with food is somehow worse than my relationship with my father

Oh my GOD I love this

TW : SELF HARM MENTIONS

https://www.fataltotheflesh.com/

use this website whenever you feel like cutting and/or self harming, pls share the website as much as possible

*slams the reblog button* This should be heard by more peeps.

Shoutout to exclusively non-possession switching systems, or almost all non-possession switchers, we aren't really represented as most media centers on those who have black-outs when they switch, and I want you to know that your system is real and that you do switch, even if you might not notice it.

I have this, and because of it, I'm unaware if I experience dissociative amnesia and I currently use the term OSDD-1b to best accurately describe my experience.

So, shoutout to us,

those who don't know who's fronting if alters are covert

those who may go days without noticing a switch

those who wake up, feeling confused or dissociated thinking about the day previous

who may have many different types of dreams where it feels like other alters are dreaming

who often has a constant stream of consciousness, and may be unaware of things going on in the innerworld

those who feel alienated from other systems who experience possession type switches, and may have grown up struggling to understand if they are a system or not

whose mind often is very blurry, and struggles to properly communicate

and those who may want to forget and be like other systems that do, but end up feeling like it's all in their head, and sometimes, you do forget, but it's not immediate and it's overtime.

And even if you don't relate to everything I've said or even if you do, then you can share reblogs of your experiences as systems without posession type switches.

I'd like to hear, because we deserve as much representation and awareness as those with possession type.

Thanks to my SHIT self control, I gained back two or three pounds. I stood on the scale, saw the number (136.0) and started crying. I hate myself.

Not gonna eat until June 1st. Let's see if I can finally do this RIGHT. Damn I'm such a freaking loser...

Man I'm on a reblog spree today. Maybe it's because for once people are ACTUALLY MAKING SOME EFFING SENSE. I myself happen to be a system and look up stuff like this so I don't feel so alone all the time. OP is right, more people (especially singlets) should see this post.

This is a serious problem I've noticed people like us having. It needs to be addressed. We're real people too, gosh dangit.

i continually see posts telling people how to treat systems correctly and yet i STILL see systems being hurt by harmful behavior, whether singlets know it or not.

do NOT put whether an alter is an introject or not above them being a real person. as a singlet BY DEFAULT their source does not matter to you. treat them like you would anyone else until you know what they are and aren't okay with.

do NOT treat alters other than the host like they're lesser than them. everyone in a system is in the same boat, your host friend included. if you treat any other alter like shit the host (and everyone else in the system) WILL be affected.

do NOT trigger alters on purpose. i shouldn't even have to say this. we aren't fun little toys for you to play with, we're REAL FUCKING PEOPLE. i don't care how big of a fan of our sources you are or how stupid you think our triggers are. be a decent person and treat us like you would anyone else. it's dehumanizing to act otherwise.

do NOT make jokes about "waiting for [x] to split" to your system friends. this one really depends on the boundaries of whoever's in question, but joking about wanting us to split is insensitive. we don't split for fun or for you to interact with your favorite character. we split because it's how our brain knows how to cope. you're not in the place to make jokes about this unless you KNOW it's okay.

often times i see posts like this get mainly reblogged by systems, when singlets are the ones who perpetuate this behavior a majority of the time. singlets can (and should) reblog AND internalize this. we're real people with a real disorder. learn to treat us like human beings.

I cannot find a GODDAMN SCALE and I'm about to cry about it like the big baby I am.

Any other introjects feel like they don't deserve to exist? Yeah cuz I feel like that.

-Ghostbur (Bur)

My drawing of @sleepyeule 's OC Lyner, and the art I used for a reference~! I am seriously in love with their stuff right now lol

Not me having such bad cramps that I wish myself dead right then and there haha lol

God being AFAB sucks ass.