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the hell is transbpd and cisbpd why are we separating a mental illness by GENDER

Reminders to transBPD folk from cisBPD:

It's okay to feel ashamed sometimes

Your identity may feel lonely and "wrong", but it doesn't mean it's invalid

You are BPD, trans or not

You are not a joke

You may or may not transition. It doesn't affect your validity.

You are safe and loved.

You are cool as hell! I want to hang out with you!

/gen /srs

"let's not be ableist!", "every mental illness should be respected" and "using slurs, especially ones that based on illnesses is wrong!" people after they call every abusive and evil person they met "narcissist", "psychopath" and "sociopath":😂👍

jesus fucking christ, i have bpd too and i can not imagine that people WANT this disorder, i wish u well with therapy i am too getting help and ik how hard and hellish it is to live with this

Reminders to transBPD folk from cisBPD:

It's okay to feel ashamed sometimes

Your identity may feel lonely and "wrong", but it doesn't mean it's invalid

You are BPD, trans or not

You are not a joke

You may or may not transition. It doesn't affect your validity.

You are safe and loved.

You are cool as hell! I want to hang out with you!

/gen /srs

Get fucked cunt

lick my balls

Please stop trying to make a “better” word for transID.

So, as a lot of you may know, the creator of the term “oculoid” has been revealed to be pro-transID, and to be completely honest, I am not surprised. Oculoids were advertised as a “better” alternative to transIDs for those with genuine atypical dysphoria. After the creator was exposed, I began noticing a few people attempt to make “better” alternatives to transIDs.

Please stop doing that.

Yes, I do believe in atypical dysphoria. I, myself, have BIID. It’d be hypocritical for me not to. But that’s just what it is; dysphoria. A big part of the radqueer community is kids who are still figuring out their identity seeing all the labels for basic human things and being drawn in. Anti-radqueer made a good post about it here that I think explains it better than I could. In summary, wanting is a human thing, and making a flag and a new word every time you want is unhealthy and disrupts your view of the world.

Oculoids were introduced as a step out of the radqueer community, but unfortunately, they’ve become a step into it. It quickly became less about genuine atypical dysphoria and more about flags and labels. Making new ‘fun’ prefixes/suffixes and communities will only lead to more people falling down the radqueer rabbit hole.

I think I’d compare oculoids to vaping, in a way. It was advertised as a way out, but became a way in. You can’t make a “better” alternative to vaping and cigarettes, but you can find healthier ways to deal with your stress, just like you can find healthier (and appropriate) ways to deal with your atypical dysphoria. Does this make sense?

Conclusion: Stop trying to make a “better” alternative to transID. Stop trying to make a “better” alternative to oculoid. Stop slapping a “better” flag and label on something and calling it a day. If you have genuine atypical dysphoria, talk to others with atypical dysphoria and form a community. Find appropriate, healthy, and harmless ways to cope with it.

Also, if you can, finding a psychiatrist can also help. I am actually seeking psychiatry for my BIID. They can also help you find ways to deal with atypical dysphoria that isn’t harmful to yourself or others. I understand not everyone can get a psychiatrist though, and that’s why I encourage building a community that is not centered around flags and labels.

hi. i don't expect you to understand or change your perspective, but i just wanna give you an understanding of my trans/trisbpd label.

i DO have it. i developed it later in life from trauma. this would make me "cisbpd" if we're being technical about it, but calling it "transbpd" feels like i can take the power back from my trauma!

maybe some transids ARE invalid. not that it will stop them from existing. if someone is willing to "fake disorders" with the transabled label; there's probably something mentally going on to make them do that. bpd has made me commit attention seeking behaviours too!

there's also a thing called body integrity identity disorder (bid/biid) which is when people feel they're supposed to be disabled, and dysphoric in the fact they aren't. is this okay? fuck no. i hope these people can recover. but not giving them space, consideration, and surgery could be way more harmful than professionally amputating them.

because they WILL and HAVE gone to unprofessionally do these things. it's unfortunate, but it is harm reduction.

i understand how the transbpd label can help u feel like ur able to take that trauma back and ik how much it fucking sucks to have bpd, but as ive seen the transbpd label has been used for people that WANT to have bpd without the trauma and glorify the bad behaviours that come with it, ive seen a post where someone was telling transbpd people how to fake having a fp and putting stigmatised abusive behaviours for how to act. and thats flatout not okay at all thats my problem with the transid label, i feel it makes an absolutely mockery of trans people and people actually with disorders ans disabilitys as this label gets used it can actually harm people that are “cisid” from getting proper help as mental health professionals might not take them as seriously and obviously having more of the public internet stigmatise and say people actually suffering are faking and attention seekers.

cisid and transid isnt vaild, cisgender is idenifying with the sex you are assigned at birth, you can’t be born with a mental illness its from trauma so that cant make sense at all. transgender is not identifying with the sex you were assigned at birth. again you can’t identify with a mental illnesses if you don’t actually have it or have the trauma that goes with it. the people that fake it cause harm to us great great harm.

i agree people whi fake disabilities need help, actual help for their mental health, ive had a family member with münchhausen and münchhausens by proxy, she was my grandmother, she convinced my mother she was sick everyday of her life to get pity and forced my mum to undergo unnecessary surgery that has impacted my mother for the rest of her life, from that trauma i was rarely taken to the doctors and ive only been to the hospital once and that was after i left my mother, im only finding out now that i have horrible hip problems as i was never checked for hip displacement at birth and now it might be to late for me and now it’s impacting my everyday life i couldn’t continue work from the pain of just being on my feet and im still fighting to get doctors to see im in pain. i only found out from my adoptive mother (shes a nursery) that i have extremely low blood pressure that causes me to almost faint every time i stand. theres been so many problems i only found out now at 16 that would’ve been fixed if they were checked when i was a baby. this is why those people are harmful, münchhausens is such a harmful disorder and people that want to be sick can cause serious truama to others.

the biggest problems i have with radqueers is the support of pedos, zoos and necros its straight up disgusting and shouldn’t be supported at all. i hope u understand this rant of my personal reasons of not supporting these labels and i hope i can actually change your mind on it :)

just found out what ever the fuck transbpd is, if u identify that way STAY AWAY STAY AWAY