2016 Was 5 Years Ago.

i'd tell you to go to hell, but you'd probably feel at home there.

remus lupin to sirius black

Sirius: Am i right, Remus?

Remus: Almost certainly not, but to be fair I wasn't listening.

glad i did

looking at old photos of myself thinking not only is that girl dead but i killed her

why the hell doesn't Sirius Black, Remus Lupin or James Potter exist?

Stop playing games, universe.

thursday is my favourite day

thursday needs a meme, here’s my attempt to contribute. it’s thursday and i’m here to help. thanks

being a girl is like I'm gonna kill myself

s&b cast announcement dropped and suddenly idk how to act anymore

Remus : Sirius, will you help me? all my clothes keep disappearing for some reason.

Sirius, wearing a t-shirt that's 3 times bigger than him : weird.

I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.

Me:

Parents:

Me:

Parents:

Me: *puts earbuds in*

Parents: iebdwibtifhd

Me: what

Parents: HDJEHDIFNE

Me: what

Me: *takes out earbuds*

Parents:

Parents:

Me: *puts earbuds back in*

Parents: jekdelwnfoehdir

Me: what