I Need Some Advice. Outing Myself A Bit Here, But Im A Trans Guy Who Is Finally Getting Out From Under

I need some advice. Outing myself a bit here, but im a trans guy who is finally getting out from under my parents. Going into this US election, my dad is going to vote for Trump again, along with a large portion of his family. I came out to them more than a year ago, but they have decided not to respect my chosen name, opting to use my dead name instead. They have made it blatantly clear they dont support my transition, but also cant do anything to stop it.

And yet despite how much they've hurt me I still love them. I miss traveling with them, and going to gaming conventions. I miss just hanging out and watching shows with them. I really dont know what to do in this situation. Every time I interact with them my mental health gets worse. I've thought about going no contact, but without them I dont know what I would do. Not to mention some of my supportive family members probably wouldnt talk to me anymore if I did that.

Anyone out there actually manage to change their parents minds to be supportive of their transition? Or any thoughts or advice would be great, im just at a loss of what to do at this point.

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#i am smol so i must scream

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1 year ago

Not trans visibility day, but still well worth reposting.

International Trans Day Of Visibility
International Trans Day Of Visibility
International Trans Day Of Visibility
International Trans Day Of Visibility
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International Trans Day Of Visibility
International Trans Day Of Visibility
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International Trans Day of Visibility

Today we are spotlighting a few of the books from our LGBTQ+ Collection that highlight trans lives and issues. Check out the photo captions to find out what books the images came from. 

International Transgender Day of Visibility was created in 2009 by therapist and transgender activist Rachel Crandall Crocker, partially as counterweight to Trans Day of Remembrance, a day of memoriam for all those lost to transgender violence. Crocker wanted “a day that we can just celebrate being ourselves.” More recently, Crocker spoke about the double-edge sword of visibility for trans folks, and called on allies of trans people to make themselves more visible. So for all the cis people reading this, think hard about how you are going to show up for the trans community today, and every day. 

-Olivia Hickner, Special Collections Graduate Intern


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1 year ago

... appollo dodgeball

are we ever gonna get a character as iconic as gerry keay ever again? ghost goth boy with paranormal mommy issues and a vendetta against books. the oiar wishes it was graced with such presence

7 months ago

Seems to be a fairly Do It Yourself kind of man. Not unreasonable to assume that extends to human bodies as well. Tenatively Trans Masc Icon.

how do we feel about this. do we think dr. tranny is a transmasc icon or a joanne katherine rowling.

How Do We Feel About This. Do We Think Dr. Tranny Is A Transmasc Icon Or A Joanne Katherine Rowling.

hahaha


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1 year ago

#horror haiku

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1 year ago

#heritage post #youre welcome #posts that should have 10k notes

Are fedoras really that bad?

Are Fedoras Really That Bad?
Are Fedoras Really That Bad?
Are Fedoras Really That Bad?
Are Fedoras Really That Bad?
Are Fedoras Really That Bad?

YES YES THEY ARE

4 years ago

Ep 14 spoilers with no context

Ep 14 Spoilers With No Context
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1 year ago

put your favorite tma character and your favorite tmagp character in the tags please im doing science. you have to pick ONE for each. good luck. if you haven't listened to one or the other just put your favorite from the one you have listened to?


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1 year ago

FIRST PRIDE!! THIS SHIS AMAZING! I get it now

Everyone here is such a gender! Theres multiple drag queen shows! The merch! The corporate support is a bit sketch, as I know a lot of it is just showing fake support. But most of the booths are genuinely here and queer. Theres a gay mens camping group!

Man, just out here loving my best life

FIRST PRIDE!! THIS SHIS AMAZING! I Get It Now

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7 months ago

Genuinely love this concept, adding it to my next rpg

WAIT. Wait wait WAIT.

poltergeists:

push things off tables

break delicate objects for fun

in general just enjoy moving and destroying stuff for pleasure I guess

make loud disturbing noises in the middle of the night

sometimes poke or bite people, depending on the myth

are invisible aka no one knows what they look like

poltergeists are just the ghosts of rambunctious housecats


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