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Aries Lilith in 7th House

Aries Lilith

Rebellious and individualistic, having disdain for rules and authority. You may not conform to gender roles or other societal norms, having a very outward expression, even if just in energy, attitude, and beliefs. You always want to do things your way and hate being told what you "should" or "could" do.

Men being super competitive and trying to assert power over you. You could have weird power dynamics with men where they feel intimidated by you. For example, you could lift weights and have guys go, "You're strong but I'm still taller than you."

Women can also be competitive with you or just not like you for some reason. BUT you can also be very competitive as well, whether you know it or not. It could be something you keep hidden depending on the rest of your chart.

People thinking you're too intense or aggressive. You aren't afraid to speak out and stand your ground, burning whatever blocks your way. This is often something you've worked on where you've been in situations that have forced you to be assertive. You might get into conflicts or irritate people just by existing lol.

You can also be extremely inspiring to those that are too afraid to speak up for themselves or express themselves. They can see you as a leader of sorts, quietly admiring from the sidelines.

Lilith in 7th House

(TW) Relationships can be tricky because you may attract partners that are unavailable, struggling with addictions/mental illness, abusive, extremely controlling.

Rejecting traditional marriage/dating roles. You may be opposed to marriage because you find it to be unnecessary. The finality of it can also feel quite daunting, you may really honor your independence and freedom.

Aries Lilith in 7th House

Partners and love interests wanting to suppress your power and dampen your confidence through aggression. I would call this "smothering your flame."

Relationships are quite intense because it unearths a lot of issues that you haven't confronted yet, and they're being reflected back at you. Vice Versa, your partner could feel the same way, it's like a mirror being help up and projected on the other. These issues can be related to impatience, being short-tempered, selfishness, possessiveness, defensiveness, being stubborn - the shadow aspects of Aries.

You may avoid relationships altogether due to past experiences, becoming emotionally unavailable or cold. You may feel like you don't need anyone and push away anyone that gets too close, you want to be your own person.

However, this can teach you how to have high standards and not let anyone walk all over you - know what you deserve and don't settle for any less.

Wild and untamed in sexuality, you crave intensity and being in control. Like I said before, you do not want to be told what to do, you want to be the one taking the lead. You might even be a bit too focused on your own pleasure while being consumed with passion; fast-paced and primal.

Scorpio Venus ❤️‍🔥

(Mainly describing the love part of this placement)

🖤 Wanting to merge souls with someone. It can be sort of a primal feeling where you want to climb into their skin or fully consume them. A lot of aching and craving for the other.

🖤 It can be so intense that it could lead to obsession or possessiveness. Jealousy can feel engrossing, even if you aren't dating this person.

This can even show up as people becoming obsessed with you, like secret admirers or exes not being able to get over you. You have a lot of sex appeal and can appear mysterious and intriguing to others. Especially if you have strong Lilith influence.

🖤 Cannot do something casual because you will quickly get attached and get hurt lol.

Because Scorpio Venus can be expressed so physically, sex can feel very deep and vulnerable. You need that emotional connection or else it can feel boring or even invasive.

Sex in itself can feel like a ritual, you need to feel like you can open up completely to each other and be bare. Trust is extremely important because Scorpio Venus wants to go deep (lol) and come out transformed.

🖤 Leo Venus can be quite similar in a very "I want all your attention and time devoted to me all the time and no one else." Both can get jealous, paranoid and possessive if unhealed.

🖤 Feeling a lot of passion for crushes. It can come on very strong, from 0 to 100. Suddenly they become your whole world and it's hard not to think about them, often falling into limerence.

🖤 If you have Venus-Neptune aspects, especially hard ones, it can make things so much more intense. There is this layer of fog that can make things confusing and you may daydream a lot. You don't know how this other person feels about you so you could fill in the blanks and become consumed by delusions.

It can cause you to fall in love with the idea of this person rather than who they actually are. You create this version of them that loves you back (if unrequited) and has all the qualities of your dream partner. You ignore the red flags or might even ignore the contradictions.

You could even avoid getting close to this person because it would ruin the illusion.

🖤 A lot of staring and eye action. With Scorpio placements, eye contact can be extremely intense. You may feel like you're looking through someone's soul and it can feel very intimate. You may not like making eye contact with most people but if you like someone...you could pierce right through them with your gaze. Or on the other side of this, you could sneak a lot of glances at them and look away when they look back lol

🖤 Sometimes it's not so much an outward energy. You can sometimes lurk in the shadows, observing your love interest like they're your prey. You're constantly analysing what they're doing and checking to see if you can trust them or if it's worth moving forward. You put so much of yourself into your desires towards the other that you want to make sure that it's safe to dive in.

Some people with Scorpio Venus (particularly with Venus/Pluto, Venus/Neptune, or a harshly aspected Venus/7th house) purposely avoid relationships because it can be very heavy. You could have crushes but hide everything under the surface and not reveal anything. They could have no idea, meanwhile you're obsessed lol

🖤 This could add to your mysterious aura, you only allow people to see what's on the surface. Only someone who's very close or romantically involved with you sees this version.

me finding out my black moon lilith conjunct my ascendant is a separating aspect: happy noises

me finding out not much later that my true lilith also conjunct my ascendant but in an applying aspect: ...nvm