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FMH
18
cancer rising
aries mc 4°
question: why am i struggling to score in my exams despite my efforts?
why is FMH struggling to score in their exams despite their efforts?
Your main obstacle is that you lack clarity about your ability to organize yourself well. Being strategic is your Achilles heel. There is a disconnect between your actions and intentions. To the point that it makes you feel like you are carrying the weight of the world because of this. Try not to be too encompassing and too unorganized. You need to plan better in the long term. There is energy you are wasting specifically because of the external expectations you have placed on yourself. They are not even your own expectations. You may even feel constantly evaluated because of that. Wanting to impress others before yourself, and it leads you to want to be all encompassing and not have a more structured plan of what you should be doing and what you should be working on. And then: Bam! You're left with that weight of the world on top of you. The reality is that this is not something that you value internally. You value the expectations of others so much that you haven't taken the time to know what you really value. Your method of study is quite unique and non-traditional, and you are stifling and suppressing it in a rigid method. The best approach you can have right now is one where you are not so rigid. You're not doing things for the love of it, or what you learn. You're doing it so rigidly trying to meet the expectations of others that it rightly makes you feel unhappy, stuck, and even causes you to procrastinate. You should look for a more flexible approach, something personalized to you that will help you reconnect with that inner motivation that will make you feel more creative and motivated to get things done.
In other words: Stop fighting your nature (in this case, your study style) and work with it. I also recommend using the "Emotional Anchoring" method. If your exams left you stressed out it is a technique that connects you emotionally and gives you motivation in your studies. You can check it here!
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Here are some FEEDBACKS from my tarot games. I know that there are people who don't know if I fit as a tarot reader, and they want to know how I do readings. So I'm going to give you a bit of background:
My alias is C, and this is my first tarot blog. Since my first language is not English, I usually translate my readings. But if you understand Spanish, you can let me know! It would make it much easier. Now according to my cards, because yes, I asked them lmao—the reading style that they have is represented by the queen of swords, so she's straight to the point in giving answers. She is perceptive in grabbing energy and she is prone to analysis. She might even be a bit scattered but that's more because of the way I am (ADHD) than the cards. But if you feel that something is not clear to you; feel free to notify me!
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★ Hello! :D This reading is a surprise and we will be focusing on your future spouse's personality. I'm a sucker for romance so I'm up for 4 piles (which is a lot for me considering I've only started doing free general readings a few weeks ago lmao it can be quite draining). But will this stop me? absolutely not. This is about your future spouse's personality so it is likely that your spouse is not quite there at the moment (yk, we all mature or are in the process of it). I will also associate CHARACTERS most similar to the description of your future spouse. Take a deep breath, ask yourself the question and pick the pile that calls to you the most!
DISCLAIMER: this is a general reading it will be as close as possible to your situation but it will not be accurate. take only what resonates. if you want a more accurate reading you can ask for it when I open my shop!
PILE ONE
Your future spouse has a very clear and mature personality. Someone who has undergone significant change. Definitely someone that matured a lot. They have freed themselves from many restrictions and seem to have everything in order when you meet them, both emotionally and financially. They are stable, dependable and again, mature. They don't allow themselves to be crushed by anyone and are resilient. For some of you they will look like they have it all, really. They will be someone who knows how to focus on what really matters without losing sight of their goals. Financial security is something they will have. Your future spouse may have had a crazy, even exciting, past. For a few of you a playboy even. They've matured a lot since then, but still carry that spark of excitement in them only with people they trust. Once you get to know them, they will make you laugh and will be exciting and fun.
You will meet your person when you make an important decision in your life that you struggled to make for a long time. It's as if you finally pluck up the courage to go for something after letting yourself get carried away by doubts or uncertainties. It is when you connect with this version of yourself that you will meet your future life partner. Best of all, new opportunities will surround you and you may meet them abroad (some of you, not all of you!), or when you start a new stage of your life. I feel a sense of freedom, of freshness. And I got really happy reading the cards. You will both be ready to meet one another.
At first the process of getting to know each other may be slow and, dare I say it, there may be misunderstandings. But nothing serious. It sounds like your future spouse is someone who struggles with opening up at all or feeling completely vulnerable. But nothing toxic or dramatic. Will not be someone who is going to play minds games with you. It just won't be a quick process of getting to know each other. You will take things slowly. Or even you, too, may even be cautious about getting to know them. For a few of you, your future spouse might be an introvert. There will be a mutual tension and curiosity in the air. The most extreme thing I see for some is misunderstandings over personal boundaries. For example: one may be too direct or forward and cause the other's personal space to feel threatened. It's nothing that can't be cleared up, though!
For the characters most similar or similar to the energy of your future spouse I have: Howl Pendragon, he's a man who seems to have it all under control, but is actually struggling with an existential crisis and leaving his past behind. They even give a nod to his past as a womanizer. From anime I don't know much, but I think of Itachi Uchiha, again, someone who seems strong, composed, competent and deeply mature, having grown through hardships while maintaining focus on what matters. Mr. Darcy even for the struggle to open up at first lmao. Really hard for me to remember a romantic comedy as close to this person as possible, sorry.
Signs: ISTP, INFJ, ENTJ and INTJ for a few of you. Fire, like Aries, Leo and even Sagittarius in Venus, Moon and Mars is very likely. Scorpio for the transformation. Leo Sun for a few of you. They might have a lot of Earth placements: Taurus definitely higher up there. I know it is a stereotype but that financial stability is something I've seen in people with some strong taurean placements (like a sun, venus or even mars in taurus in the 2nd house). Capricorn is up there too. Saturn trine Moon or Venus.
PILE TWO
I have no other way to describe them than as an interesting book that won't be easy to read, but will keep you hooked, curious and even seduced. I can't help but see that they will be secretive, calm and even aloof but mysterious. They may see romantic relationships in an unconventional way, but this is what will give them an authentic touch. For a few of you, they won't want a traditional marriage. They are, however, a very intelligent person. Very introspective. They are able to read between the lines and notice things that others might not normally notice. For some of you, a person that reads people well before they can even speak. A rich inner world despite being reserved. They are making it so hard to describe them lmao. I believe they are very private and reserved, but they are very seductive once you get to know them. The type who prefers deep conversations to superficial ones. Talk about everything a little bit and have a rich conversation. The type to remember details of the deepest things you have talked to them about or even things that you consider not so important that you have shared with them.
You are going to meet your person when both of you, or just them, are going through a stage where you feel stuck and are looking for a change. They may know that where they are currently gives them stability. Perhaps the job or where they are gives them that security, but they know deep down they needs to let it go and move on. Some of you will meet at a formal meeting, or a business related event. At first it will be a little tense or even uncertain. It is likely that the external situation will not let you two connect immediately. For example: perhaps one of you is looking for a new job, or is starting a business.
You will have palpable chemistry, and for some of you it may not be a marriage as such. You and your future spouse may be slow to make decisions or deal with certain issues. The lack of clarity and perhaps the reserved nature of your future spouse will make things so slow as to create frustration. A feeling that things are not moving forward as you would like them to. The key between the two of you will be learning to work together on communication and whether you both have the same values and vision for life. For some of you this may be a challenging connection. And for a very few of you, I don't see you getting married but this is as close as you will get.
For the characters most similar or similar to the energy of your future spouse I have: Megumi Fushiguro comes in the back of my mind and fits very well. Edward Cullen. Oh! and Giyuu! Miguel O'Hara (mostly because of how methodical, secretive and respected and even intimidating he became to others, not on an antagonistic energy tho).
Signs: Straight up textbook ISTJ for many of you. ISFP, INFJ and for others of you an INTJ. ESTJ for a very veeery few. Definitely a Capricorn/SCORPIO Moon or Capricorn/Scorpio Venus. Taurus Mercury for some. The competitive streak might be explained by a fire sign, maybe an Aries Mars or a Scorpio Mars (scared of y'all).
PILE THREE
A quick thinker. Speaks even faster. A remarkable capacity for analysis and strategy. Quick-witted and intelligent. One of those people who, if you tell them a clever joke, will respond with one that is just as good or even better. Somewhat restless but competitive. Will not tolerate mediocrity in their life. Their mental agility may make them come across a bit cold or cerebral at first. But they are simply very focused and guarded.
Whatever betrayals or hardships they’ve been through have created someone independent. Maybe even too independent, and when they meet you, things might move slowly before they let you in. This future spouse has experienced a lot of pain and sadness in the past, possibly facing betrayals or disappointments. This has led them to be more reserved and emotionally guarded—a gentle soul. They are quite rational, and for a few of you even leaning toward being pessimistic.
When you both meet, you will be looking for balance in your lives. I couldn't help but see the scales in the tarot cards. In short, balance/justice, whether professional or personal. You are likely to meet in a legal proceeding, a shared project, or simply evaluating what deserves to be in your lives that will bring balance or fairness to you. Your future life partner will be at a stage where they recognize that it is important to give and receive in a balanced way (I'm suspecting if either of you has any Libra in you), i.e., evaluating your priorities. Perhaps you will meet in a mediation service, volunteering, or a situation where the key is give and take.
The connection between you will be full of possibilities. You need to remember to set foot on the ground. You won't struggle to see a sky full of possibilities together, your only struggle is to get lost in it. Structure is key! The sky is the limit. It will be a stimulating connection. You will have shared dreams. Your future spouse may be more impetuous in pursuing their ambitions, while you are more likely to be more of a good judge of what steps to take. In short words, you complement each other.
For the characters most similar or similar to the energy of your future spouse I have: Satoru Gojo, he is quick-witted, competitive and even impulsive at times but deeply layered Definitely Flynn Rider. For Ghibli male leads, I could only think of Seiji Amasawa from “Whisper of the Heart,” seems distant but opens up emotionally as he becomes more secure in his relationship with Shizuku.
Signs: Yeah, they scream ENTJ, ESTP and ENTP to me. Air signs a lot too. Gemini is the one that I can definitely see in them, like an Gemini Venus/Mercury/Sun is definitely up here. Sagittarius sun definitely up there. Mars in Aries or Aries anything, really lmao.
PILE FOUR
Your future spouse will exude an aura of happiness! I see a relaxed, optimistic, and self-assured person. A very hardworking person too. Who does not let the bad things in life destroy their spirit. It makes me think of someone who lights up the room with their presence, someone you would suspect them to have been through so much. They are satisfied with themselves, though they’ve come from difficult times that made them question their emotional stability. A charismatic person, who becomes the center of attention—or even artistic for some of you—who makes you feel like you’re the most special person in the world.
You will meet each other at a time of healing, when you are both leaving difficult situations behind. Situations where you have carried a burden that has left you exhausted.
Your future spouse will be quite committed, and will avoid falling into controlling and possessive dynamics with you. You will have a strong connection because you will have shared values and principles. You will grow emotionally together. Commitment will not feel like an obligation, but will feel natural and by having shared values and principles you will respect each other (wow). For a few of you, you may have to let go of old patterns, because you will be able to find stability without needing to be too dependent on each other.
For the characters most similar or similar to the energy of your future spouse I have: For this pile: Naruto Uzumaki, Yuuji Itadori (sweet, charismatic, unbreakable spirit and green flags). Elle Woods for the infectious energy, values she has (how she never broke her client's trust) and again, the charisma she has. Hashirama Senju (like full, this one a lot for his hardworking and charismatic spirit paired with his strong principles and values).
Signs: This person makes me think a lot about ENFP, ESFJ and ENFJ. From zodiac signs: pisces or water signs. Leo or even Sagittarius. Definitely Libra or even Aquarius. Moon trine Mars: emotional strength paired with action and positivity. They may have only one aspect in a sign and the most likely I can think of is Leo (their childlike ways can be similar to an Aries but Aries turns on as fast as it turns off, this person struggles lmao).
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Thank you so much for the insightful reading, needed this after a breakup. I can't express in words how much this has helped me on getting a clearer idea on what aspects I need to work on and credible resources to refer in times when I need help.
thank you!! it’s inspiring to see you focusing on growth and finding resources to support yourself. after a breakup you still manage to find love; in the form of self-love. ❣️❣️ that truly shows your strength. hope everything goes well and sending you the best of wishes!
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tysm for the reading! it was honestly so so on point.. i am def v guarded and that is a result of my past experiences. me having feelings for someone was something that was a very innocent and hopeful thing that now just makes me sad. i worry about letting someone close to me out of fear but i am also never approached romantically so it just keeps me in this bubble. i also have quite high standards after those experiences!! and i am definitely going to bring them down loll. thank u so much for the kind words and guidance 🫶🫶
thanks for sharing your thoughts! ❣️ i am so happy it resonated with you, yay! 🥳 and i get it. it is understandable to feel guarded after what you’ve been through but remember: it’s not your standards that need adjusting—it's those walls. you gotta reconnect with that inner child again. high standards are a reflection of your self worth. if you are never approach romantically don’t let that take a toll on your ego at all. don't think that's a reflection of your worth. i'm often told that i'm conventionally attractive, but do i get approached by many people? not a single one. just stares LMAO. the number of people (men in my case) who pull the classic "i don't want anything serious rn" while wanting to act like a couple or "let's get to know each other first" while having you to the side is immeasurable this days. so DO NOT lower them please. since I raised my standards a few years ago, the same thing happens to me. the minute you lower them men come to you like flies.
true & honest love is haaaard to come by. I've come to enjoy my own company a lot; it's not something that bothers me at all haha. the moment i started to enjoy my solitude i haven’t been able to look back. personally, I know my own qualities and what I bring to a relationship, as well as what I’m looking for. relationships take time and energy, so I’m very selective about who I share that with. It’s not about lowering your standards, but about being intentional with who you let in. after so many bad experiences i am not going to waste my life on connections that don't add up for me, really. anyways take your time and trust that the right person will match you!
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Feedback ✨️
The reading was extremely accurate. It’s true that I focus a lot on 'giving,' and most of the time it’s not reciprocated, which ends up making the relationships one-sided, and I’m a bit tired of that. I will definitely take your advice into account from now on, and I’ll work on the three things you mentioned.
Thank you so much for the reading, I really appreciate it. You helped me a lot! And I’ll keep this phrase in mind: 'Don't expect others to fill your cup when you can do it too' ❤️🩹
thank you so much for your kind words ❣️🥺 i am really glad it resonated with you and you found it helpful. it is so important to recognize when you are giving more than you get in return so i am proud of you for wanting to shift that balance in your life! wishing you the best <3
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Thank you so much for this reading. I'm side eyeing spirit for saying I'm not in a bad,terrible place cause I definitely am. The message was well articulated but hard to hear emotionally. It's all in my hand,that sounds more like a burden than empowering atm. But I'll try to marinate in it and see how I can apply the message to my life. Thank you again💓
your spirit, aw! i believe they are trying their best LMAO don’t get me wrong i can understand the frustration! i just find it quite adorable that this is their way of calming you down while you are seeing right through their ways lmao.
oh & i completely understand you about the financial distress… so take your time to process it and marinate into it. I completely understand how it can feel like a heavy burden to have the control of getting yourself out of a tough place. i don’t know exactly what your situation is but I’ve been there with financial struggles, and in my case it was the opposite. in the sense that when I pulled the cards it told me it was out of my hands. i remember the heavy feeling on my stomach when i got that from the cards while my life was falling apart (literally). my cards like to be straightforward just like my spirit guides. it was something completely external and all i could do was wait… it happened just like the cards told me. i was warned to do nothing while seeing everything fall apart and I was RESTLESS. so from what you are telling me, i can see how you are still in that state of mental stress that does not allow you to connect with your intuition. which is completely understandable don't get me wrong. but acknowledging how you feel is already a powerful step and it positions you closer to the other side. finding strength in situations like this is really hard but i'm around if you ever need a place to vent! sending you the best vibes and hope everything gets better for you soon, honey❣️
hello! im here for the tarot game!
FMH
18
cancer rising
aries mc 4°
question: why am i struggling to score in my exams despite my efforts?
why is FMH struggling to score in their exams despite their efforts?
Your main obstacle is that you lack clarity about your ability to organize yourself well. Being strategic is your Achilles heel. There is a disconnect between your actions and intentions. To the point that it makes you feel like you are carrying the weight of the world because of this. Try not to be too encompassing and too unorganized. You need to plan better in the long term. There is energy you are wasting specifically because of the external expectations you have placed on yourself. They are not even your own expectations. You may even feel constantly evaluated because of that. Wanting to impress others before yourself, and it leads you to want to be all encompassing and not have a more structured plan of what you should be doing and what you should be working on. And then: Bam! You're left with that weight of the world on top of you. The reality is that this is not something that you value internally. You value the expectations of others so much that you haven't taken the time to know what you really value. Your method of study is quite unique and non-traditional, and you are stifling and suppressing it in a rigid method. The best approach you can have right now is one where you are not so rigid. You're not doing things for the love of it, or what you learn. You're doing it so rigidly trying to meet the expectations of others that it rightly makes you feel unhappy, stuck, and even causes you to procrastinate. You should look for a more flexible approach, something personalized to you that will help you reconnect with that inner motivation that will make you feel more creative and motivated to get things done.
In other words: Stop fighting your nature (in this case, your study style) and work with it. I also recommend using the "Emotional Anchoring" method. If your exams left you stressed out it is a technique that connects you emotionally and gives you motivation in your studies. You can check it here!
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Hiiii!
My initials: N
My rising: Taurus
My age: 23
In sidereal, my venus is within 10 degrees of aries.
My question: What should I do to become financially independent? If my question isn't phrased quite right, please just give me any advice surrounding this area of my life.
Thank you so much💕💕
What should N do to become financially independent?
I see a strong desire for independence and an ability to want to take charge and control over your finances. You have a good starting place, but it's as if you're looking the other way, as if you feel the urge to do something else. Which doesn't quite align with your situation. You're not currently in a bad terrible place, I don't know why you're having this urge to look away. But I guess it's a case of "the grass is always greener on the other side". You want to do so much at once but you need to take a breath. It looks like cultural or family pressure is influencing your attitude right now. It affects you in such a way that you fail to discern opportunities and dare not follow your inner voice. That inner voice that is not anxiety, but a voice that makes you think "hmm, I wish I had done x thing if I had not been so hard on myself". You should free yourself from that external pressure, so you can connect better with yourself; only then you can take better advantage of the opportunities or advantages that come to you. Because in the meantime, you will not be able to take advantage of them in this state. It is not that you need to take a “how to be more independent” course, or listen to someone else’s advice (LMAO). You have the ability to do it yourself, N, which is the funniest thing! Your approach should stop being so pessimistic and ahead of the worst and be more clear minded. Don't be so self-critical. Take control of your anxieties, don't let them cultivate irrational fears about your financial independence. Try to be more flexible with yourself.
hey theree, i am not dead. college is just beating my ass lmao. let’s hope i sort things out before the end of this week ~ my priority is answering the remaining asks the moment i deal with this.
full moons are for this:
Zuhair Murad Fall-Winter 2024/2025
CRISTIN MILIOTI as SOFIA GIGANTE The Penguin (2024) dir. Craig Nobel
ABBOTT ELEMENTARY (2021 - ) I 3.05 Breakup
Hiii, I hope I make it in time! :)
Initials: A.F. Age: 18 Rising sign: Leo Aries placements on earliest degree: None! (Although I have Aries MC at 13°, no other Aries placements apart from that) My question: What personal flaws of mine are blocking any potential romance from taking place? 🥲
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What personal flaws of AF are blocking any potential romance from taking place?
Your cards were very direct, I like that. Or maybe I just liked your energy cuz is more inviting haha. Anyways: You are an overthinker! That’s it. Now getting more into it… For starters I realize that your biggest obstacle is that you have all this energy and encouragement to get started but, all of a sudden you stop. It's like you're stuck in the doldrums thinking in the least optimistic way about the possibility of something without even taking the necessary steps to get into it. You don't even get to explore it, and I got a card that talks about potential in reversed. What does it mean? It's a cup, and it speaks of emotions. Your heart probably has a hard time opening up at first. You end up blocking the natural flow of things yourself. I do believe you tend to intellectualize things so much. Maybe this is why I got so much sadness from a card and if you do that be careful! I know this is a defense mechanism from you. But it is not a healthy one. You prefer what you know and dislike uncertainty. Now this means that you don't know how to manage, let alone take the initiative on your emotional connections. You get stuck in doubt and fail to balance your emotions with your anxiety. You are likely to analyze everything and become impulsive about that anxiety, and therefore cut off certain connections before they start or don't even bother to enter into them because you notice a particular detail of something you didn't like. You get stuck in that inner struggle that you don't end up doing much, really. Things don't take the initiative. So to get out of this stagnation you need to look for some stability in yourself. Learn how to stop overthinking and intellectualizing everything. Just breathe. Know that not everything needs to be perfect and sometimes hurt happens even if we try our best to avoid it. It’s inevitable. Like the Little Prince said: “Of course I’ll hurt you. Of course you’ll hurt me. Of course we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter. To become presence, means accepting the risk of absence.” You must learn to balance that stability with some action and initiative without letting those anxieties take over. Asking yourself a simple "Is it really that bad?" or "Is this my anxiety/fear or am I over analyzing it?" or even more simple “Am I living?” to yourself would serve you well. Letting your mind take over your heart is not letting it beat freely. And the heart saddens. Question that anxiety, challenge it to find out if it is really true what it makes you believe. It is good to discern and use logic, but in your case you need to learn to balance heart and mind. Because your mind doesn’t play for you, it plays against you. It puts locks in your heart. I can’t stop quoting books and authors but this will (not) be the last and it goes:
“So we shall let the reader answer this question for himself: who is the happier man, he who has braved the storm of life and lived or he who has stayed securely on shore and merely existed?”
Learn how to manage it to the point it is not your enemy anymore, but your best friend. Bell Hooks said the practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control. So stop waiting and thinking about it too much and as nike says: just do it. Enjoy and feel. Don't waste your heart in fear.
oh and I will be answering the next ask today I got lazy yesterday my bad hehe<3
A CINDERELLA STORY (2004) dir. Mark Rosman