Trans Women Are Valid - Blog Posts

I support this with my being and it's a fact

transgender men are not a fetish

transgender women are not a fetish

transgender people are not a fetish

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Right, considering the current state of corporate politics on this site, and that it seems that only those affected seem to be actively speaking on the matter, it is up to I, the only fucking cishet on tumblr, to drag this out to a wider audience.

REBLOG IF YOUR ACCOUNT IS A TRANSFEM SAFE SPACE.

We need to show these higher ups how much we truly value them.

What is the thing you guys like the most about me? 🤔 I seriously want to know lol. It’s hard for me to understand why other people would find me interesting at all because I kinda see myself as pretty average lol. 😅 Also I hope you guys like my outfit for today. ❤️ I’ve been really enjoying being able to wear shorts more and enjoying the summer heat! ☺️ Now that it’s finally consistently warm I can’t wait to be able to go do more things!

Reblog if you are a Trans lover 🏳️‍⚧️💝🥰

Rare outdoor selfie since some people think I never go outside

Okay you got me lying on my back… what comes next… 🥺😍

Reblog and DM for Nfsw content

Somebody once told me that if I keep working out so much I’m going to make my body too manly… I will let you guys decide if you think that is right 🤭

Reblog and DM for NSFW contents 🥰

Reblogging to ask ppl who are clicking the “other” option to PLEASE reblog this with a link or a picture of the flag they prefer, or to message me with a link or pic. Thanks!

Trans women and transfems of Tumblr, I have a question. Which transfeminine flag is the best to use? I’ve seen some controversy about the most commonly used transfeminine flag (Number 1) so I’m not sure what flag would be best. Let me know!

Flags:

Number 1:

Number 2:

Number 3:

Trans women and transfems of Tumblr, I have a question. Which transfeminine flag is the best to use? I’ve seen some controversy about the most commonly used transfeminine flag (Number 1) so I’m not sure what flag would be best. Let me know!

Flags:

Number 1:

Number 2:

Number 3:

Trans tips #6

YOU DO NOT NEED TO INFANTISE YOURSELF TO BE MORE PALETABLE TO OTHERS

you don't need to infantile yourself

You don't need to be palatable

You don't need to conform to others views and opinions

You don't need to infantise yourself to be more palatable

You don't need to infantise yourself for others

You don't need to be palatable for others

This one is kind of a rant so whatever BUT

I SEE THIS SO OFTEN IT MAKES ME WANT TO GO FERAL

There was this great trans influencer on tiktok, he went by Mars, had all the surgeries, talked about his experiences, had a clothing brand, interacted with fans, allllll the good shit an influencer can do...right? RIGHT!!

I loved his, he's one of the first influencers that made me question my gender identity, made me do my own research and ask myself questions and start to realize that I, too, might be Trans

Fuckin love that guy! He's great!

But you know what's one thing that made me cringe away from him! HE INFANTISED HIMSELF SO MUCH

This goes for trans women and men, you don't need to make yourself look like a meek lil defenseless thing to be palatable to others! PLEASE

He called himself a boy ALL. THE. TIME even though he's a full ass man with a beard and body hair and age and wisdom he call himself a little boy!

He got the testosterone jelly but he called it his "boy goo" STOP IT

He stood slouched and pitched his voice up for the camera and tried to make himself sound and appear as meek and whimpy and vulnerable as he could! Just in the way he carried himself in his videos!! And it INFURIATES ME BEYOND BELIEF!!!!!!!

DONT INFANTISE YOURSELF

It's testosterone jelly, not "boy goo" even "man goo" or "man slime" if you still wanted a stupid lil name for it just ANYTHING BUT BOY GOO also that just sounds weird to begin with!!!

Your a MAN not a BOY unless you are the AGE of a BOY you are a MANNNN

Same with trans women!!!! You are not a GIRL you are a WOMAN unless you are the AGE of a GIRL you are a WOMANNNNNN

And I get it, you don't wanna be that big intimidating trans person coming in public restrooms like what the media says is evil and blah blah blah

But your fucking NOT

INFANTISING YOURSELF IS TRANS ERASURE

We are not meant to hide in the shadows or be in the back of the classroom or anything like that! Be proud about who you are! Square your shoulders! Chin up! Pick up your feet! Walk with confidence! PLEASE

End of rant but I just needed to get that out of my system

Also i have a rant about trans people sexualizing themselves but that's a different rant for another day!